"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think I need to learn to make cold approaches

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manbearpig

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One thing I think's been reducing my chances with women is that most places I run into them are very transient, such as the grocery store. I don't know any chicks I see on a regular basis, thusly I usually don't get the time to establish rapport with them, and then ask them out.

The current job I'm in(residential repainting) doesn't put you around chicks, all your co-workers are dudes. And I'm not going to be in college this semester due to money issues I haven't been able to work out, so I don't think I have any choice but to start doing cold approaches. I know it takes more skill and I'm not at that level yet, but what other choice do I have?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ValleyDJing

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ehhh. Get a new job? I'm trying to get one in the mall. :up: yeah... you know what I'm talking about!
 
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manbearpig

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At Victoria Secret's? LOL!

Nah I can't get a new job, my current one is too good. At my age I'm not gonna make ten bucks an hour anywhere else, not even close.
 
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blinkwatt

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Work at a grocery store part time,trust me you wont regret it. Ask me how I know?(Iv gone out with seven customers).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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