"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think I might have to get me one of these stripper chicks

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I love it when guys on this site feel the need to put there two cents in about **** they have no clue about. I've been dating a dancer for months now who I meet years ago and have been acquaintances with. Over the years hanging out with her and meeting her co-workers (hundreds of them) and dating girls from all walks of life I can say that strippers, or not, women in general have issues.

I've met more 9-5 career women who have random ONS, or do drugs then I have dancers. Hors are hors no matter how they make their money. If I can find a hot girl who dances around with bandaids on her nipples and a thong on three feet from a guy for $10/min who doesn't sleep around, have a substance abuse problem, or try to get things out of me then I'm on it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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... If I can find a hot girl who dances around with bandaids on her nipples and a thong on three feet from a guy for $10/min who doesn't sleep around, have a substance abuse problem, or try to get things out of me then I'm on it.
Meaning that you are "on" to no one!! :rolleyes:
 

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STR8UP said:
If I didn't know better I would think that you were projecting some insecurities here
I don't know why you'd think that.

The key word was "higher" when you said you were of "higher status" than your friend..that made me think that you thought people of other statuses are better than those of other statuses..it would make a lot of people think that, not just me.
 

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Back when I was in college I drove cab to make ends meet. Met a LOT of dancers that way. Most were nuttier than squirrel crap but again, a lot of that could be chalked up to the age range and partying lifestyle. I dated 3, one was so sweet she wouldn't say crap if her mouth was full of it, one was sweet but an emotional wreck, and the last one was just plain insane to the point of being scary. 1 bad one in 3 seems about on par with the general population in that age group.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last Man Standing said:
Meaning that you are "on" to no one!! :rolleyes:
IME living in a city that has a high police presence in the strip clubs this is more often then not what to expect from a strip club. Yes seedy strip clubs exist and I would not suggest anyone date a girl who works in one. STR8UP if you are talking about dating a girl from an off the highway trailer park strip club then no dont do it. From what you post actually said though (yes LMS I actually read it and didn't concoct a generic non-virgins are hors argument) these girls are getting paid to be hot and give guys something to go home alone and jerk off about.

I've actually had a much easier time with the girl that I'm with now then some of my prior girls who were as good looking. One was a secretary who pulled in a bull**** salary and thought the world revolved around her since she was hot. After a couple of dates I cut it off and straight out told her I wasn't going to tolerate her attitude she kept trying to crawl back.

Then I managed to move on to what I thought was a nicer more innocent girl who was a vet. Turned out that she was great but I would have to share her with her husband. Found that out after three months.

Maybe it is just my experience but what a girl does for a living has no correlation as to how insane she is going to be. Trust me I wish that it was easier, but it isn't. If you really think that you can find a hot 20 something without some issues (regardless of her occupation) then you are wasting your time. The irony here is that after 4 ltr's in the past 10 yrs and a lot of girls in between (and unfortunately sometimes during) I actually have a higher level of respect for my current gf that is dancing than most of the ones before her.
 
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II've actually had a much easier time with the girl that I'm with now then some of my prior girls who were as good looking.
This reinforces my stance - that they are all hors, regardless of titles, employment,looks or beliefs!! Say "No" to hos!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
This reinforces my stance - that they are all hors, regardless of titles, employment,looks or beliefs!! Say "No" to hos!
So according to this I should just give up on any good looking women because she might be a hor (according to you)?

That might be the attitude that you take in life but I would rather actually take the time to get to know a woman before I decide whether she is a hor or not. I guess that is the whole point that I'm trying to make here. You cant just label a hor by what she does, were she comes from, or how old she is.

The thing that I'm not getting here though PRL is when is a girl worth going for? It seems to me through all your hatred of women that you would be much happier with a male partner, probably one that isn't a hor. As a heterosexual living in the US were can I find a woman who is not a hor, or at least not part of some (random insert whatever nonsensical conspiracy theory) who I can trust?
 
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Belvidere, A hor is what a hor does - she has sex outside of marriage!! Why are you so hateful????

Are you delusional - why the incompetence???? You hate truth and love wickedness - live by the hor, die by the hor!!!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Belvidere, A hor is what a hor does - she has sex outside of marriage!! Why are you so hateful????

Are you delusional - why the incompetence???? You hate truth and love wickedness - live by the hor, die by the hor!!!!
did you seriously just ask me why I am so hateful?

Better yet you managed to follow it up with asking me whether I was delusional.

Maybe you hate reality and love fantasy. After all I have yet to actually hear you give any advice other then she is a hor. Given the evidence that most homophobes are just projecting their insecurities and you have never proven to actually be a hetero I am hereby instigating a full fledged, no nonsense, you suck **** until you prove otherwise campaign against you starting right now.

What LMS (I mean PRL, only homo's have alter egos ie boy wonder) makes me believe that you dont actually like the taste of a mans penis? You have never actually posted how to meet girls, nor have you commented on how to court girls. The only thing that you have managed to write on this website throughout years of posting is that girls are hors and you have tried to steer most of the guys on here away from hors (women).

Are you using this website to advance you man on man homosexual (women hating) agenda?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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belividere said:
did you seriously just ask me why I am so hateful?

Better yet you managed to follow it up with asking me whether I was delusional.

Maybe you hate reality and love fantasy. After all I have yet to actually hear you give any advice other then she is a hor. Given the evidence that most homophobes are just projecting their insecurities and you have never proven to actually be a hetero I am hereby instigating a full fledged, no nonsense, you suck **** until you prove otherwise campaign against you starting right now.

What LMS (I mean PRL, only homo's have alter egos ie boy wonder) makes me believe that you dont actually like the taste of a mans penis? You have never actually posted how to meet girls, nor have you commented on how to court girls. The only thing that you have managed to write on this website throughout years of posting is that girls are hors and you have tried to steer most of the guys on here away from hors (women).

Are you using this website to advance you man on man homosexual (women hating) agenda?
Demons hate truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We live in a sad and corrupt world, where Homo deviants are spreading their message throughout the world!! Reject these demons and live!!!!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Demons hate truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We live in a sad and corrupt world, where Homo deviants are spreading their message throughout the world!! Reject these demons and live!!!!!
Did you just admit that you are actually spreading a homosexual agenda?
 
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