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i think i just ****ed tup... ****kk

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so me and this chick bein talking through facebook were cool child hood friends.. then i try to get sexual with her etc, i was part being sarcastic but i guess it back fires..

then all of a suddent i start talkin about my ex, and i tell her how she cheated, how ****ed in the head she is, and i guess she go's telling my ex showing her the messages.. did i ****ed tup majorly? ugh

Note - this girl is one hell of a hoe though. 2 kids already she knows my ex gf real good.

..

bein no contact with ex for 11 months now

this is wat ex gf posted on her fb a couple of hours ago..

I cheated, I messed up before , I made myself look like a hoe , I have no problem admitting that and I especially dont have a problem being proud of myself for OVERCOMING that. but YOU sir, YOU have a problem moving on and pointing fingers at everyone else.
and I saw those messages too, where you were kissing ass to her LMFAO

You had some BALLS to say what you said. Mr. I am an ANGEL. LMFAOO..

^^
ugh

did i ****ed tup..

and no i dont lurk around her fb, my cousin still has her as a friend and he told me about it that probably it was referring to me.. and i just checked it out.. out of curiosity..

wtf do i do now?

i dont want her to feel that she has the upper hand/power on me in anyway possible.

do i unfriend my female friend that snitch on FB?
 

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Delete the friend, she ain't no friend if she did you like that. Also ignore what your ex said, if you respond you show that you ain't over it and thus prove her point further.
 

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seethehoop said:
Delete the friend, she ain't no friend if she did you like that. Also ignore what your ex said, if you respond you show that you ain't over it and thus prove her point further.
but if i unfriend this friend, its gonna be to obvious that i saw my ex gf Fb status, or that i found out by looking at her status witch e'll make me look like a bittcchh..

is there anyway to turn the tables by talking to this snitch friend? by telling her something? something that will throw all of this off?
 

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delete and block them both,and anyone else who is friends with them. facebook is a mans enemy seriously
 

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betheman said:
delete and block them both,and anyone else who is friends with them. facebook is a mans enemy seriously
but wouldnt that be showing weakness?

wouldnt she think that im lurking her fb?

wouldnt she feel with more power if i do that? :box:

im sooo pisseddd offff ugh
 

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Jair213 said:
but wouldnt that be showing weakness?

wouldnt she think that im lurking her fb?

wouldnt she feel with more power if i do that? :box:

im sooo pisseddd offff ugh
Honestly? I think you need to get a life, buddy.

Seriously. Block both of them. Forget about them.
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
Honestly? I think you need to get a life, buddy.

Seriously. Block both of them. Forget about them.
i have a life dude wtf -_-

i could careless about this bishess i just want to make sure if thats the best thing to do
 

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Jair213 said:
i have a life dude wtf -_-

i could careless about this bishess i just want to make sure if thats the best thing to do

In this scenario, FB is a wasteland for men, if you wat more punishment, keep them as friends and be a puppy.
f cck it, move on, do you need this sh!t?
 

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This is precisely I don't bother with facebook, it's just one big drama-fest.
 

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This has almost nothing to do with FB and why its bad as most think.

It has to do with the OP emotionally immaturity and being stuck in the past.

Don't block her or unfriend her that's just retarded.

Block her from your feed as PDX mentioned and move on from it.

No need to talk to the friend about it again.

Just the simple fact that your trying to figure out a way to look like you have the power or that you don't care shows how much you DO care.

And while it was def a low blow for your friend to go telling your ex about what you said; in reality you have no one to blame but yourself.

You acted like a complete chump and despite knowing she was good friends with your ex you still went on your diatribe.

C'mon dude, you have to be smarter than that; you know women talk.

Learn to control your emotions better in the future and you will avoid messy situations like this...







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