"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I think I finally found the problem.

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Okay so after my last post (about this beautiful girl that wanted me for a brief period) I'm pretty sure I've goten to the source of my misfourtunes with women. As I look into my past with girls I really can not see really ANY that I wanted and chased them. Its ALMOST always been that I heard the girl wanted me and if she was semi-cute then I would go for it. I believe thats why I haven't been happy with the girls I've been getting with recently.

But thats over now, since I finally found the SOURCE of my problem I am aiming to fix it with your guys' help. Yes, thats not my only problem but I believe that my other problems are coming directly from this one. I have slight trouble talking to girls, I never really hit on girls I wait for them to come and hit on me, and I just give up way too easily.

Now guys, I know that in order to solve this problem or dare let me say it, fear, of chasing women and getting rejected, I'm going to need you to help me. The first step I believe is clearly just going for who I want and not who wants ME. I have these 2 girls that I'm VERY interested in and therefore thats who I'm going for. Now if you guys could help me on how to step up my game for these 2 girls that would be great.

I can fix this problem its not that bad but I won't be able to do it without you guys so help toddC because he needs it!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just read a lot of the information in the DJ Bible.

If you want the two girls, just go for it. Just start talking with them like you would one of your friends, and then setup a date with them.
 
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2 women that you want sounds like a good number maybe you can get them both at the same time in the same room, together.

2 of them slowly getting undressed catering to your every need...
 
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Do you have good conversation skills with the girls that hit on you?

If so just pretend the girls you want are girls that have already hit on you.

Should make the conversation easier then unless of course they tell you to get lost lol.
 
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i mean, i have decent conversation with ALL girls but after a while it just dies and thats when i lose them. i guess if i know they want me i kinda feel a lil more comfortable so i guess i'll just convince myself that the girls i want already want me and go from there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/techniques/tactics/playing-hard-to-get.html

...Here is a good read by Tyler Durden about WHO chooses WHO :yes:

don't let it change your perception too much though, in any case these guys are strictly mentioning for ONS at a club/bar etc.
But this is Advanced material. The point is to get the girl to CHOOSE you...

P.S. If you haven't read any Tyler Durden, May I suggest finding his name at the top of that page and reading his basic stuff first.
 
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