RandomGuy22
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ok A few weeks ago, i posted about how my g/f and i were having problems. Well.. two days before thanksgiving, i'm at her house and she tells me she wants to see other people, but that she wants to still keep seeing me b/c she really likes me and thinks i'm great, but she's goin to college, so doesn't want to be in a serious relationship. Well I was definetley not ok w/ that b/c i realy did like / still do like this girl a lot.
Ok.. so anyway thanksgiving break passes and that monday we both go to a concert with one of her friends. that night i had two friends who were girlst here and i was talkin to them, and the next day they asked me if we were still going out... b/c they said "she was all over you", which is true. She kept holding my hand and putting her arm around me etc.... then... when we get home and i'm going to my car she pulls me back and kisses me. Not like a big kiss, but a kiss nonetheless. so i was all confused about mixed signals..
Since that day, in the hallw e still walk and talk, we do tons of kino all the time, and she even sent me a "santa - gram" (it's a thing our school does in winter time) taht is supposed to be from girlfriend to boyfriend.. SO i was hella confused.
Fastforward to yesterday, we were supposed to go to this thing at the park with xmas lights, but it rained so i said i'll call u later and we can reschedule. I called and left a msg saying call me back. SHe never callls back. I asked her if she got my msg and she says.. "I got your message, but i couldn't think of anything for us to do... so i didn't want to call and interrupt your shopping" (i had an away msg on aim saying that i was at the mall, b/c i was). Anyway this really pissed me off that she didn't call, so i kept trying to hint at the fact tha tiw as mad, but she kept avoiding it. So finally... i just said "look this is bugging me and i have to talk about it" and she said.. "well part of the reason i didn't call back is b/c i don't want you to think i'm only want to see YOU, i still stand by my decision to date otehr guys". So we had a big long talk on aim (yes lame, but it was the only thing available at midnight) and we cleared the air... and decided to be "friends with benefits" whatever that means.. Anyway my problem is i don't kno what to do... I think that telling her all that was a big mistake, and it may make her like me less..
and also... she asked if i had any interests in other girls.. and stupidly i said "no, not at all". sigh..... this is the most pathetic AFC thing ever, and i know she has interests in other guys b/c when i said "would it make you feel weird if you saw me with another girl", and she answered "At first it would... but i love the chance at getting to know other guys, so i would be happy for you".
So...... help me save my dignity dj's... What would be the best way to handle this?
Ok.. so anyway thanksgiving break passes and that monday we both go to a concert with one of her friends. that night i had two friends who were girlst here and i was talkin to them, and the next day they asked me if we were still going out... b/c they said "she was all over you", which is true. She kept holding my hand and putting her arm around me etc.... then... when we get home and i'm going to my car she pulls me back and kisses me. Not like a big kiss, but a kiss nonetheless. so i was all confused about mixed signals..
Since that day, in the hallw e still walk and talk, we do tons of kino all the time, and she even sent me a "santa - gram" (it's a thing our school does in winter time) taht is supposed to be from girlfriend to boyfriend.. SO i was hella confused.
Fastforward to yesterday, we were supposed to go to this thing at the park with xmas lights, but it rained so i said i'll call u later and we can reschedule. I called and left a msg saying call me back. SHe never callls back. I asked her if she got my msg and she says.. "I got your message, but i couldn't think of anything for us to do... so i didn't want to call and interrupt your shopping" (i had an away msg on aim saying that i was at the mall, b/c i was). Anyway this really pissed me off that she didn't call, so i kept trying to hint at the fact tha tiw as mad, but she kept avoiding it. So finally... i just said "look this is bugging me and i have to talk about it" and she said.. "well part of the reason i didn't call back is b/c i don't want you to think i'm only want to see YOU, i still stand by my decision to date otehr guys". So we had a big long talk on aim (yes lame, but it was the only thing available at midnight) and we cleared the air... and decided to be "friends with benefits" whatever that means.. Anyway my problem is i don't kno what to do... I think that telling her all that was a big mistake, and it may make her like me less..
and also... she asked if i had any interests in other girls.. and stupidly i said "no, not at all". sigh..... this is the most pathetic AFC thing ever, and i know she has interests in other guys b/c when i said "would it make you feel weird if you saw me with another girl", and she answered "At first it would... but i love the chance at getting to know other guys, so i would be happy for you".
So...... help me save my dignity dj's... What would be the best way to handle this?