"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think I discovered the key to women

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Game is pretty much good in emergency situations. It is not the essentials, but it is the go to when you don't have any more weapons. Plus, I see so many exceptions and most natural players don't even know what game is. I seriously believe desirable guys emit something like pheromones that trigger something in a girl's brain. These might also make the guy act naturally more confident and ****. How do I activate this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Simple. Just have an active, busy life doing shıt you like. Whoever wants to hop on board, fine. Whoever doesn't, see ya. Not much more you can do, man.
 

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^ That doesn't work for me. I like weightlifting, swimming and playing hockey and there's no chicks hanging around these parts.
 

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mr. kennedy said:
^ That doesn't work for me. I like weightlifting, swimming and playing hockey and there's no chicks hanging around these parts.
tinder
 

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Do you know what the best place to meet women is? Everywhere. You discovered nothing. The reason why a woman is attracted to a man might be pheromones, it's a speculation, but the fact is, they are attracted to simplistic confidence that lacks arrogance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hudpes said:
Do you know what the best place to meet women is? Everywhere. You discovered nothing. The reason why a woman is attracted to a man might be pheromones, it's a speculation, but the fact is, they are attracted to simplistic confidence that lacks arrogance.
Yet, I see guys that would make this site cringe with women. They would laugh at this site and continue to get girlfriends. There's too many exceptions lol. Maybe game only works on messed up women?
 

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Game is just charisma and that works on everybody to various degrees.

Techniques that go beyond simple charm are bells and whistles that can make your game more powerful but can't be applied generally.
 

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Was in Costco today, pushing a cart full of **** around and no ring. I observed girlfriends/wives outta the corner of my eye/ear...their "Do you see those sunglasses I need?" to the boyfriend/husband's "You mean, you 'want'..." I was cringing at the masses of boyfriends/husbands trying to talk to their SOs who were snappy and/or looking down at her cellphone and texting all the while pushing the cart. Many there, you wonder, How can they shop? or pay their annual membership fee? and on and on and on.. How do these brain-dead people AFFORD ANYTHING in this store? How do they EARN a wage large enough to pay for Anything in this store? Many did not have a full cart as I did, but some did. You wonder, is this just a social event for them? something to DO? going to Costco? a cheap way of gf/bf "doing" something together? cause they are just there walking around not putting anything in a cart cause they know they can't afford it. Very weird people, there. Just weird, strange-looking people. Of course, you see the same in Wal-Mart.

So, I see these women with strange-looking dudes, and DUMB as FVCK dudes, of course, they, themselves, dumb as fvck, probably fvcked a ton last night (Saturday night), got high, drunk, whateva. People EVERYWHERE at noon, shopping, and the strangest looking dudes had a dame on his arm. Some of them probably wondered why and the fvck I didn't at the moment, um..."it's a helluva lot cheaper" I'd say (if asked). I'm about to revoke my membership though, it's not worth it, but worth a try. Sure, I found a good coat, gloves, and snow aides for my vehicle for the upcoming winter, aluminum foil, etc etc etc, all at a decent price, but is it worth being bumper to bumper with carts even though the isles are wide and deep? I'll pay for smaller crowds..
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Was in Costco today, pushing a cart full of **** around and no ring. I observed girlfriends/wives outta the corner of my eye/ear...their "Do you see those sunglasses I need?" to the boyfriend/husband's "You mean, you 'want'..." I was cringing at the masses of boyfriends/husbands trying to talk to their SOs who were snappy and/or looking down at her cellphone and texting all the while pushing the cart. Many there, you wonder, How can they shop? or pay their annual membership fee? and on and on and on.. How do these brain-dead people AFFORD ANYTHING in this store? How do they EARN a wage large enough to pay for Anything in this store? Many did not have a full cart as I did, but some did. You wonder, is this just a social event for them? something to DO? going to Costco? a cheap way of gf/bf "doing" something together? cause they are just there walking around not putting anything in a cart cause they know they can't afford it. Very weird people, there. Just weird, strange-looking people. Of course, you see the same in Wal-Mart.

So, I see these women with strange-looking dudes, and DUMB as FVCK dudes, of course, they, themselves, dumb as fvck, probably fvcked a ton last night (Saturday night), got high, drunk, whateva. People EVERYWHERE at noon, shopping, and the strangest looking dudes had a dame on his arm. Some of them probably wondered why and the fvck I didn't at the moment, um..."it's a helluva lot cheaper" I'd say (if asked). I'm about to revoke my membership though, it's not worth it, but worth a try. Sure, I found a good coat, gloves, and snow aides for my vehicle for the upcoming winter, aluminum foil, etc etc etc, all at a decent price, but is it worth being bumper to bumper with carts even though the isles are wide and deep? I'll pay for smaller crowds..
And the same girls screw around with Djs. Sloots will sloot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Poonani Maker said:
So, I see these women with strange-looking dudes, and DUMB as FVCK dudes, of course, they, themselves, dumb as fvck, probably fvcked a ton last night (Saturday night), got high, drunk, whateva.
It doesn't take a lot of brains to fvck, that's for sure. Even if reading this forum might give you the impression that it's the most complicated thing in the world.
 
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