"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i think i blew it..

foomee

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so anyways.. tonight i flirted a lot with this girl kathryn who has thought i was cute for quite some time now. anyways... we cuddled a little bit while we watched wedding crashers in my friends room and then started to kiss/makeout and i'm like "i gotta watch the movie" and she got mad and moved to the other bed where i wasn't. then maybe half an hour later she moved back and we made out some more, not quite enough though and then she went to bed. but yeah... i think somehow i screwed it all up. she was saying i was small, like my body.. but yeah i'm hella skinny. and i said she was too... mainly cos she is. and yeah. but um.. yeah id unno. sorry i'm drunk
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tomatoes

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Ok so your in with her and you say you wanna watch the movie. Your not drunk...your stupid. Movies can be seen anytime. Seaze the moment with her.
 
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