I think I blew it with ****y/funny and made a girl disinterested...

[rgeere]

I actually said a little bit more than this, but this is the general gist in context of what was said.

A girl I didn't know walked up to me today and asked:

Her: Wow! I've seen you all over campus today.

Me: That's because I'm omnipresent. (girls smile and laugh)

Her: Hmmm, must be rather hard to comprehend being everywhere at once?

Me: Well, on the contrary it's rather easy to comprehend when you have a superior mind and intellect.

Her: Well, I'll cya buddy...

That "I'll cya buddy" doesn't have a ring to it that I like a whole lot. I think I went off a little bit too arrogant at the end and she got disinterested. I had her and another girl laughing with the omnipresent part though.

 

[joecollapoppa]

LOL you scared her away you AFC Loser you insulted her intelligence
A girl in NYC wouldve kicked you in the naaaads LOL!! heh heh

See now when she said i seen you all over campus, i would've been like if youre lucky, you might see me all over your bed.

 

[rgeere]

You're right. I might just act AFC at times, but giving me AFC advice in return does not counter my own AFC experiences.

I would appreciate further postings from anyone else with more than half a brain, thanks..

 

[NRM]

Don't worry rgeere, joecollapoppa got beat up by girls and he didn't even insult them to begin with.

People always say it's not important what you say, but how you say it. And for the most part, it's true. Some guys might have gotten away with it, but it did seem a little TOO self-centered. It was just more ****y than funny. You need to strike a balance. I'm sure you've got it down, you just messed up once. It happens to everyone. Just think more funny than ****y.

 

[joecollapoppa]

Actually i did insult them NRM, i just didn't expect them to come at me so harsh though LOL. when they yelled out What YOU SAY BOI! i knew i was in trouble. most girls walk away mad. so i was taken off guard. I had trouble in my past, stop hauntin me with it aiight, i got somethin good out of it anyways so ha

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

Me: Well, on the contrary it's rather easy to comprehend when you have a superior mind and intellect.

When before hand she said

Hmmm, must be rather hard to comprehend being everywhere at once?

Haha, makes you sound arrogant indeed. It sounded like you were insulting her intelligence by making yourself look like you're smarter then her. Tone of voice, your facial expression has alot too do with wether it comes off as arrogant or C+F.

If you said it in a montone voice with no smile then yeah, I'd see why she'd think you were arrogant. I think alot of us on here (me included sometimes) use this C+F stuff but don't use our bodylanguage to show them we're just teasing.

 

[Soma]

First...that was not ****/funny. That was just ****y. You definitely came off like an arrogant prick. hahah!

It's all good, I've made some pretty dumb mistakes myself.

Second, I've learned that if a girl opens you, you do NOT need to be c&f. In fact, you should NOT do it. It's going backwards and only serves to fvck things up.

If a girl opens you, you then go into rapport. Of course be playful and fun (not goofy) but do NOT bust on her, neg her, or be a ****y bastard! CF is to gain attraction. If a girl opens you, you've ALREADY attracted her. Time to move on to getting to know her and letting her get to know you.

Took me many, many, many, and yes...MANY fvck ups to learn that lesson.

-Soma

 

[joecollapoppa]

Gimme My crown Fool

Well Im the C+F king, any questions just ask me.
It feels good when you neg hit a HB10 cuz she thinks she's all of that already. guys are always drooling over her, she will find you different. If you're lucky, she might wanna fight

 

[Caveman]

Yes, it was either the delivery or her lack of a sense of humor.

I nearly blew it with a female co-worker once because I said something "I get so tired of girls loving me this much sometimes." I know the comment in itself is just ****y but the delivery should have made it funny. It was very obviously a joke, but she took me seriously and started to act a little weird.

I instantly knew she had taken me seriously, she even got back on the subject later that day. Instead of making excuses though, I turned it up a notch and exagerated even more. She eventually realized I was joking and things are okay again.

The point is: not all girls can intstantly tell when you are joking, even if your delivery is good. If the "cya buddy" was meant in a way that she never wishes to speak to you again, there is no loss cuz she obviously has no sense of humor. Well, at least not YOUR sense of humor. You know what they say.. plenty more fish..

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

Her: Wow! I've seen you all over campus today.

Me: Your not like all the other stalker girls, your actually pretty cute.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by JBizzle
Me: Your not like all the other stalker girls, your actually pretty cute.

That's good. I'll remember that one.

Well, I'm not sure what it was that didn't appeal to her it just didn't appeal to her.
I'm not going to gripe and complaine over it since the school year is starting and there are plenty more where she came from. Lots of hot new girls have come into town with their sight set on me. It's just a matter of me getting off my lazy ass and doing something about it.

 

[TurboLover]

Hey rgeere,

What school you go to?

I go to UTA and OMG there are so many honeys.

Yeah you came off kind of stuck up with your reply.

Girl: I've seen you all over campus today.

Me: I know and I graduated 2 years ago, (looks her up and down)whats your name?

jk

 

[NoBull]

rgeere,
I think that line would have worked if it was coordinated with your body language. Maybe it was. Maybe the girl was insecure.

Don't make 1 girl change your whole perspective on something, it was smart IMO. But not very funny per se.

Although I would have said something like:
Me: Obviously if you didn't stalk me all day, you wouldn't see me that often.

Just turn it around like she was the one following you all over campus.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by TurboLover
What school you go to?

I know two guys who are at UTA right now. One of them is getting a masters in mechanical engineering and the other one is a computer systems specialist and LAN tech for the faculty and students there.

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by NoBull

Me: Obviously if you didn't stalk me all day, you wouldn't see me that often.

Just turn it around like she was the one following you all over campus.

I agree. I should focus more on putting the impedence on the girls more and make them act. When you think about it the way I answered her was a tad conservative and doesn't put a lot of force on her to make any actions.

 

[rgeere]

A little update. I saw the girl at a fitness club tonight and she walked by me and said "Hey there mr. omnipresent" in a pleasant tone. Maybe she didn't take it as bad as I previously thought...

 

[joecollapoppa]

How did the convo go after that?

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by joecollapoppa
How did the convo go after that?

There wasn't one.

I said "Hey" and continued walking.

I didn't feel like it mattered much. I was avoiding my ex-girlfriend who was down the hall waving for me to come over to her and there were 4 other chicks who were trying to follow me around and asking personal questions.

Plus, she wasn't the girl only that said anything to me tonight. I had numerous girls walk past me and say hi and a few others who would look at me and smile when I looked back at them.

 

[Luveno]

Her: cya buddy

Me: No, I'll see you. I'm omnipresent, remember?

 

[Diaoz]

Originally posted by Luveno
Her: cya buddy

Me: No, I'll see you. I'm omnipresent, remember?

great one mate, think you can give me some tips on how to come up with comebacks fast like that one? I used to be able to but these days I just can't think properly and always end up with wussy remarks.