"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I think I am too arrogant

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Politics have nothing at all to do with it, sugarbritches. Not that it matters...but I'm actually fairly conservative...but I digress.

You came on this forum asking how to be more confident and admitting that you think you're too arrogant. I'm being honest with you...you will never become genuinely confident unless you strip away the arrogance first. Arrogance and confidence can't co-exist.

And that multi-millionaire was actually a genuinely great human being...very down to earth, humble and not at all arrogant. But alas, he was not the norm in his circles and I just wasn't willing to go beyond friendship with a guy whose environment was so damn uptight and anal.
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It must be like hitting your head against a brick wall. So I'm going to say thanks for the advice, all the same, don't waste any more time on this issue with me.
I could go off on a tangent, and criticize every last thing you said, and explain to you why politics is very much to do with this, and you are an embarrassment to right-wing supporters. However, at the end of the day, I may be arrogant, but I'm not rude.
So, and I'm being sincere here, thank you for your attempts, they were appreciated, but don't bother. Your point that it cannot be archived is taken, but I'm not willing to change to this effect.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Without justification, or valid argument, a statment can never be precedent.
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Ignore the other posters if you want to make any change towards having more confidence from here on out. They all think you are an arrogant prick who deserves nothing more than to get his ass kicked if you mouthed off to them... they're only waiting for you to slip up;)

I hope you believe what you just said. If so, I want a statement of your game, what is it in less cultured women that makes them so easy for you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I hope you believe what you just said. If so, I want a statement of your game, what is it in less cultured women that makes them so easy for you?
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Those type come to me like a fish to water; too bad I don't want them.
 
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seriously... can you game any women than?

You don't want less cultured, and you are scared of higher class.

Tell me what I asked of you.
 
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seriously... can you game any women than?

You don't want less cultured, and you are scared of higher class.

Tell me what I asked of you.
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I'm not scared of high-class, I only want high-class.

I don't quite understand what you are asking of me.
 
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"I'm too arrogant"

You humbly ask for advice... but you ain't humble enough to take it.

Is people's level here too low for you?
 
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You say your confidence falters in the face of HB10's

If that means what I think it means, than you can answer me. If you still can't than you have to tell me what you think confidence means to you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You say your confidence falters in the face of HB10's

If that means what I think it means, than you can answer me. If you still can't than you have to tell me what you think confidence means to you.
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Yes, I do not have confidence in the face of HB10s, is this what you are asking?
 
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styleman said:
It must be like hitting your head against a brick wall. So I'm going to say thanks for the advice, all the same, don't waste any more time on this issue with me.
I could go off on a tangent, and criticize every last thing you said, and explain to you why politics is very much to do with this, and you are an embarrassment to right-wing supporters. However, at the end of the day, I may be arrogant, but I'm not rude.
So, and I'm being sincere here, thank you for your attempts, they were appreciated, but don't bother. Your point that it cannot be archived is taken, but I'm not willing to change to this effect.
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Oh, you are both arrogant and rude...and as someone quite properly pointed out...pretentioius as well. I'm not "right-wing", nor am I "left-wing". I come from the camp of "live and let live" and work hard, earn your own way and never take things for granted or walk around with a sense of entitlement. At the end of the day...you eliminate the waste from your body exactly the same way as those poor shopkeepers do...and the pile you leave smells no sweeter than their's. That's the bottom line...

Oh...and feel free to go off on a tangent and criticize all I've said. Go right ahead and engage me in a debate...but mark my word...you will just be biting off far more than you can chew.
 
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Oh...and feel free to go off on a tangent and criticize all I've said. Go right ahead and engage me in a debate...but mark my word...you will just be biting off far more than you can chew.
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I would not put you through so much embarrassment. I know where I come from. I have nothing to prove; name alone does that for me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oh really? Is that what you think? I was actually amused with this thread while having breakfast. Gotta go now, have a good life.
 
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styleman said:
I would not put you through so much embarrassment. I know where I come from. I have nothing to prove; name alone does that for me.
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lol...you wouldn't be able to embarass me, I assure you. It's not possible. Where you come from, who you are...none of that matters here. You'd be wise to check that attitude at the door. You could be the next king of England and no one would care. You came here because you need advice and help with women. You can find that help here...but not if you retain that lousy attitude.

Again...if you want genuine confidence instead of a phony air of arrogance then you need to strip away all that is fake and get real...confidence comes from the ground up and the foot work is the same for everyone...regardless of your background.
 
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lol...you wouldn't be able to embarass me, I assure you. It's not possible. Where you come from, who you are...none of that matters here. You'd be wise to check that attitude at the door. You could be the next king of England and no one would care. You came here because you need advice and help with women. You can find that help here...but not if you retain that lousy attitude.

Again...if you want genuine confidence instead of a phony air of arrogance then you need to strip away all that is fake and get real...confidence comes from the ground up and the foot work is the same for everyone...regardless of your background.
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Okay, shall we leave it at that.
 
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It's nice, because she is trying to change you. She blocked me, because she wouldn't accept my advice...

Styleman, you want confidence, what do you think confidence is?

If I'm allowed to be presumptuous, it's got something to do with a lck of some unkown quality x.

What is x?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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