"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think I am losing her

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dcastillus

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I've been dating a girl for 6 months, things started
great, lots of sex talking all the time. Now that
we're not in the same class anymore we hardly see each
other, we might be going to different schools next fall, and when we do see each other I don't feel her attracted to me (she says she needs time to think about us)
as she was before we still say I love you to each
other but something doesn't feel right and I read the
Don Juan article about how love is supposed to make
you more masculine instead of more submissive and
feminine, unfortunately I am becoming the latter. His
article makes sense but I was wondering if there was a
seminar or some type of class/advice i could take/have
that may help me save my relationship or not fall into desperation/depression if it ends. I would greatly
appreciate any responses.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I-tallionStallion

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SOunds like its over. Sorry man - or maybe ur better off.

If you want a chance with her here's my last ditch effort to keep the girl.

BREAK UP WITH HER

Trust me on this. And cut off contact. See if she doesn't crawl back to u...sometimes they do and let me tell u it can be very fast but don't accept her right away...let it dangle a little while. Tease her with it

ANd when U DO...ur relationship will be like it was in the beginning.

You need to get hand in your situtation. DON'T LET HER CONTROL THE RELATIONSHIP...you have to...this way if you do this you will be masculine. And if she doesn't comeback she didn't want to be with you. Sounds easy right...makesure you break up with her sternly...with a good reason like for instance --- the relationship isn't going how u want it to go --- say that. Modify it...and please no crying lol

Stop saying you love her for now...even if you do. Do this tactic immediately, don't wait for her to end it with you because SHE WILL and SOON...better to be the one who does the dumping then being dumped.
 
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KontrollerX

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Itallionstallion is right dcastillus. Plus your gut instinct is telling you this relationship is going downhill and the gut instinct never ever lies.

Though it may feel wrong to you what Itallionstallion said is the only possible advice you can take to come out a winner in this.
 
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