"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think I am being stalked (seriously)

CantTouchMyStyle

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I don't know how exactly this happened, but I guess I am partially to blame.

I don't fvck around with girls I work with for obvious reasons, but do game every chick that I work with for ****s and giggles. I never make sexual references that could get me in trouble, but when the girls I work with flirt with me I run some game on them for practice & fun.

Anyways, I have had a flirtatious relationship with this girl for a few months. Nothing serious. I would never date the chick. She's got a really nice face and decent body, but is not my type and most important of all we work together.

A week or so ago I am in the break room (she knew I was on break) so she followed me into the break room to talk to me / whatever. I am sitting there messing around on my phone and she turns to me and says,

"Hey, can you call my phone? I don't think my service is working.."

I of course oblige even though I know she just wants to give me her number. We talk for a few more minutes and then I go back to work.

Two days later, I get a phone call from her while I am at my other job. I can't answer, because I am at work. I send her a brief text like "what do you need?? I am working"

She doesn't reply. I don't notice or care. However, for the next few days I am getting blocked calls to which I don't answer.

Fast forward to today. I get a phone call from her (unblocked), I pick up, she doesn't answer just kind of breathes into the phone. I don't even bother to text her this time -- it's just odd.

If she accidentally butt dialed me -- wouldn't she be a bit embarrassed and text something like, "oh sorry I didn't mean to call you!"

Later on at work (the job she works at) I am talking to a friend about it without saying which girl it was and I get an unknown call again. I pick it up at work and I hear a female voice / breathing just like it was earlier. The voice just hangs up quickly.

I may be overreacting but this is a bit odd. I have not seen this girl at work since she got my phone number so I haven't been able to ask her. Totally odd that

1) she wouldn't reply to the text when she called me the first time.

2) If it was an accident her calling me (twice -- doubtful) she didn't text me saying sorry it was an accident or whatever.

I am a bit befuddled and don't want an awkward situation at work. Which is almost inevitable at this point.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vice

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LOL dude, why would YOU apologize for accidentally calling someone? I just TELL them whatever it was that happened, it's nothing to be sorry about.

She's probably just nervous and wants to talk to you.
 

3countriesPlan

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Lol I thought some b1tch was standing out in the bushes with a hatchet watching you watch TV or something. Can't you just get a program for your phone that screens your calls for you? Thats what I do.
 
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