"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I think I almost died

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Holy sh!t

I was going 50+ mph on a curved on ramp

It was wet

My S-10 lost traction and fishtailed

I spun around and slid down this muddy hill

It was steep

Fortunately, my truck didn't flip over

I feel so weird right now

I feel like I cheated death

I don't even care about my ticket or my truck

Oh, I was surprised at how many ppl stopped to help and check if I was alright

This must be one of those life changing moments
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I know what it feels, I have been in two car accidents, twice. My grandma died in the first one. Also, I almost got thrown into high sea by a current but i'm here writing this because I saw on digg how to get out of those currents. I survived a guerrilla assasult, and also survived Pablo Escobar and hitmen.

What do you learn from those things? Nothing. They shock you for a while but then you forget. they rarely change your life.
 

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Well, the fool learns from experience. The wise man learns from the fool. And the idiot doesn't learn at all.

What *I* learned is take the curves slower and stay the fvck out of Medellin, Columbia.
 

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Nygard said:
I know what it feels, I have been in two car accidents, twice. My grandma died in the first one. Also, I almost got thrown into high sea by a current but i'm here writing this because I saw on digg how to get out of those currents. I survived a guerrilla assasult, and also survived Pablo Escobar and hitmen.

What do you learn from those things? Nothing. They shock you for a while but then you forget. they rarely change your life.
Actually, I do believe I learned my lesson

It did shock me, and I do try to learn from my mistakes

This was one of those things I had to learn first hand
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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