People, in general, don't want to see others succeed if they can help it.
A guy doesn't want to see another guy succeed with women because it denigrates his competitive advantage in the mating market.
Women don't want their girlfriends to get swooped at bars because either:
a. They're beta females who try poaching guys from attractive friends under the pretense of "protection."
b. It's reality's tacit demonstration that she has lower value than a friend, so she makes it her mission to ****block a guy.
People want to make other people miserable. When it comes to sex, there are very few people who possess the self-confidence to facilitate a sex for a friend, even less for an amiable stranger just looking to get lucky.
So a few things I've realized are:
1. You need to make approaches as "organic" as possible. You need to convince the girl that your meeting was a random act of destiny rather than an intentional advance. This allows you to tiptoe around all of her "anti-slut" sensors and, when she's off guard, you can leverage your game to its full potential.
2. Be prepared to hold your frame at all cost. Male ****blockers will usually threaten you, probably with an implication of physical violence. More intelligent (albeit far more rare) guys will try to neg you into lower status with jokes or subtle attempts to trigger your insecurities.
Females will also try to neg you although most will look for a subversive ****block where they "make eyes" at their friend to withdraw or physically eject her from the situation with a desperate pull. Girls know that ****blocking is ugly and there aren't many with the self confidence to stand up to the acerbic bite of a man who knows what's going on and isn't afraid to point it out.
3. Isolate, isolate, isolate. This is obvious enough.
****blocking will ever go away because it's one of the primary ways humans compete.
A guy doesn't want to see another guy succeed with women because it denigrates his competitive advantage in the mating market.
Women don't want their girlfriends to get swooped at bars because either:
a. They're beta females who try poaching guys from attractive friends under the pretense of "protection."
b. It's reality's tacit demonstration that she has lower value than a friend, so she makes it her mission to ****block a guy.
People want to make other people miserable. When it comes to sex, there are very few people who possess the self-confidence to facilitate a sex for a friend, even less for an amiable stranger just looking to get lucky.
So a few things I've realized are:
1. You need to make approaches as "organic" as possible. You need to convince the girl that your meeting was a random act of destiny rather than an intentional advance. This allows you to tiptoe around all of her "anti-slut" sensors and, when she's off guard, you can leverage your game to its full potential.
2. Be prepared to hold your frame at all cost. Male ****blockers will usually threaten you, probably with an implication of physical violence. More intelligent (albeit far more rare) guys will try to neg you into lower status with jokes or subtle attempts to trigger your insecurities.
Females will also try to neg you although most will look for a subversive ****block where they "make eyes" at their friend to withdraw or physically eject her from the situation with a desperate pull. Girls know that ****blocking is ugly and there aren't many with the self confidence to stand up to the acerbic bite of a man who knows what's going on and isn't afraid to point it out.
3. Isolate, isolate, isolate. This is obvious enough.
****blocking will ever go away because it's one of the primary ways humans compete.