"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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THIAGO BRAZIL II

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...it is much much better to have a girl (at least one) chasing you than be chasing a girl.

When my 4 year ltr ended in january my DJ skills were rusted. A girl met me online and she was damn interested, but I couldnt remember the skills, so I lost the chance - mistakes such as being nervous, infactuated, etc.. I remember 3 weeks ago, the days after the date with this girl I spent the week thinking about her, top class afc :crackup: Now she does not reply my messages etc.. ok.. thats a next on her.

On the other hand, as soon as I noticed that she was not interested any more, I met another girl, but this time I (am) was studing heavily the DJ Bible, some other books on skills, and visualization every day... this time I handled things like a player.

This morning, 2>30 am she sent me a message on the cell phone
(I wish I was in your bed now)..

She send me massages, calls me, says that is in love with me.. hohohohoho

She said this "you are so misterious, it makes me feel horny about you" and this "You are so hard to catch, you are bad to me, call me!!" more "Im in love with you."

Aint that cool?

I know, I know, its not what my life is about, it is like fishing a big bass, if it happens is better than if it does not! :yes:

And the best thing is that I did so few moves, I could graduate Sun Tzu Master College !! ahhahah

Tomorrow Im going fishing, and I dont even think about this girl, just fishing with my friends, things are set up for a date tomorrow night, hot night for me & her !! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

The feeling of being chased like gold is great! It gives a sence of freedom!

Thanks sosuave.com again for this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thiago, I must say it's nice to see you posting again. I wondered where the hell you went when you disappeared for 3-4 years :)

What it really boils down to is that, not all, but many of the things learned on this board should be put into your personality, especially anything to do with mindset and self-improvement. The things that are the most beneficial are the posts that will not only help you with women, but anybody you encounter!

Learning not to take disrespect, learning to stand up for yourself, and learning that you are the most important person in your life will get you far. NEVER quit practicing those three basic principles, for they alone will improve your life. That's why your LTR failed (or that's why you didn't kick her out of your life)

A lot of the techniques will get a woman attracted to you. Some techniques will keep her attracted to you. Find out what works well and keep doing it. If it's genuinely golden information, it won't expire with time.
 

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Desdinova said:
Learning not to take disrespect, learning to stand up for yourself, and learning that you are the most important person in your life will get you far. NEVER quit practicing those three basic principles, for they alone will improve your life.
My point exactly! Applying these skills and your 'DJskills' cannever be rusted because they are your DJskills. And they will improve all areas in your life.
 

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Desdinova said:
Thiago, I must say it's nice to see you posting again. I wondered where the hell you went when you disappeared for 3-4 years :)
Thank you my friend

Things did no go the way expected. heheh

fishing failed and I had no date :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Thats ok.

Yesterday I realized that the DJ philosophy is a way of life that englobes all aspects of life, daily routine, ambitions, future!

Thanks again for the welcome back, I went to a looong trip to hell and just returned. Even so there are good things in hell too ehheheh
 

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Yeah, being a DJ isn't memorizing lines or stuff like that, it's changing the person you are for the better. Sometimes I wonder how or where I would be if I never found SoSuave.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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