"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i talk tooo much.... we should only talk enough to make her comfortable,

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only talk enough to make her comfortable enough for kino then body language the projects a sexual frame is critical..... to night i talker 4 two hours... and did not escalate cause i like to talk...

so she gave me the i have to go causr blablahblah.... so tried to rush some physical... very uncooll...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonGorgon said:
only talk enough to make her comfortable enough for kino then body language the projects a sexual frame is critical..... to night i talker 4 two hours... and did not escalate cause i like to talk...

so she gave me the i have to go causr blablahblah.... so tried to rush some physical... very uncooll...
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ROFLL @ jaggs

I think DG might be a bit tipsy
 
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Solomon said:
ROFLL @ jaggs

I think DG might be a bit tipsy
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i should have used some wiscky... but i had this ho over at midnight and i talked and talked.. i think cause im getting old i want companionship before sex but those hos are not on that same page..
 
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Girls love nothing more than to listen to themselves talk. Pretend to sound interested in what they have to say and they'll want to hang out with you forever. Just relate everything they say back to them and keep asking them questions etc. Only contribute enough from your end to keep the conversation going.

Of course, while this is going on, you should be working the kino hard. Otherwise, you're on the fast track to the friend zone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lexington said:
Girls love nothing more than to listen to themselves talk. Pretend to sound interested in what they have to say and they'll want to hang out with you forever. Just relate everything they say back to them and keep asking them questions etc. Only contribute enough from your end to keep the conversation going.

Of course, while this is going on, you should be working the kino hard. Otherwise, you're on the fast track to the friend zone.
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i think as im getting older im getter more emotionally vulnerable.. i want more than just an F, i want a companion so im now looking to hos in vein for something more...

empty sex no longer fills my void.. i want to care and i want to be cared about... i know i have other issues that make this problem worse.. maybe if this girl was not soo cool i could have just treated her as a piece of meat
 
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