"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i talk tooo much.... we should only talk enough to make her comfortable,

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only talk enough to make her comfortable enough for kino then body language the projects a sexual frame is critical..... to night i talker 4 two hours... and did not escalate cause i like to talk...

so she gave me the i have to go causr blablahblah.... so tried to rush some physical... very uncooll...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonGorgon said:
only talk enough to make her comfortable enough for kino then body language the projects a sexual frame is critical..... to night i talker 4 two hours... and did not escalate cause i like to talk...

so she gave me the i have to go causr blablahblah.... so tried to rush some physical... very uncooll...

ROFLL @ jaggs

I think DG might be a bit tipsy
 

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Solomon said:
ROFLL @ jaggs

I think DG might be a bit tipsy
i should have used some wiscky... but i had this ho over at midnight and i talked and talked.. i think cause im getting old i want companionship before sex but those hos are not on that same page..
 

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Girls love nothing more than to listen to themselves talk. Pretend to sound interested in what they have to say and they'll want to hang out with you forever. Just relate everything they say back to them and keep asking them questions etc. Only contribute enough from your end to keep the conversation going.

Of course, while this is going on, you should be working the kino hard. Otherwise, you're on the fast track to the friend zone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lexington said:
Girls love nothing more than to listen to themselves talk. Pretend to sound interested in what they have to say and they'll want to hang out with you forever. Just relate everything they say back to them and keep asking them questions etc. Only contribute enough from your end to keep the conversation going.

Of course, while this is going on, you should be working the kino hard. Otherwise, you're on the fast track to the friend zone.
i think as im getting older im getter more emotionally vulnerable.. i want more than just an F, i want a companion so im now looking to hos in vein for something more...

empty sex no longer fills my void.. i want to care and i want to be cared about... i know i have other issues that make this problem worse.. maybe if this girl was not soo cool i could have just treated her as a piece of meat
 
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