"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I take every woman for granted

Fela Kuti

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So here's my "problem". Everytime I discovered that my date really likes me, and she begins to chase me, I begin to take her for granted and lose interest. Although deep inside I know that she's the girl I want. Anyone else experiences this? What's the solution? Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Play the Game

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Yeah, i get that sometimes when a chick gets really clingy or sends me messages everyday. I'd still hit it though.. im not gay.
 

2_intense2

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I have to same problem. I would go after a guy, who I usually don't think he has an interest in me. But when I fine out he likes me, I lose interest. I guess for me it's all about the challenge, and when the challenge is over. I move on to the next guy.
 

Obsidian

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I have to same problem. I would go after a guy, who I usually don't think he has an interest in me. But when I fine out he likes me, I lose interest. I guess for me it's all about the challenge, and when the challenge is over. I move on to the next guy.
This is way more an issue for females than for guys. If you're a guy and you're seriously dropping HBs because they get interested in you, there's something wrong with you.
 

rrrrr

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Maybe you never really wanted her to begin with if you lose interest so quickly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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it's simple human nature: you want what you can't have. something loses value if it is too easy to acquire
 
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