Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I suggest all of you read this thread!!!

Prodigy746

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It proves many things that i have read here.

If you are too lazy to read this is a summery.
Girl posting a thread about her and her boyfriend who she works with. She was also dating multiple guys while with him.
-Guy got too needy calling apologizing texting too much ...
-She was offering her self for sex but he never took it, she got annoyed by him being so serious and calling all the time.
-She ignored the calls and texts
-He stops calling and ignores her for 7 weeks.
-She is confused not knowing what to do...she is asking is she should Apologize, start a conversation etc
-She now wants him back badly



it proves that stopping contact can work.
It also proves that you shouldnt act needy and text right away. Also, if a girl is trowing herself at you you should take advantage of it or she will get sick of showing you signts

ITS A MUST READ

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t170758/
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I suggest we all crap on your face and pee in your eyes. What the hell is so groundbreaking about this?
 

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Good post.

To the other guys bashing this guy...when your learning game, sometimes you need to see examples that prove what you have been learning. I think we all did that at some point. Verification of our education.

Glad your learning something Prodigy746.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This does prove a point. Really, it paints a picture. Hepled me out. Thanks.
 
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I remember when the women from loveshack started posting here. They said they want a nice guy, and not a jerk.

Then, I went over there and searched the threads these same women made. They were obsessing and making threads over guys who treat them like ****.

So it's proof that women say they want a nice guy, but it's the opposite from the truth.
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
I remember when the women from loveshack started posting here. They said they want a nice guy, and not a jerk.

Then, I went over there and searched the threads these same women made. They were obsessing and making threads over guys who treat them like ****.

So it's proof that women say they want a nice guy, but it's the opposite from the truth.
Women have no idea what they really want. Its upto us to figure that out. Weird isn't it?
 
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daygameguy said:
Women have no idea what they really want. Its upto us to figure that out. Weird isn't it?
It's true, you really do have to threat them like sh!t. It goes against everything I believe in, but as soon as you tell her you have feelings for her she will dump you.

I am speaking from experience. The sh!ttier you treat them the longer they stick around.
 

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In my opinion, females want a nice guy with the qualities of a jerk. A guy that'll treat them right but at the same time be able to disagree and walk away.

Most women expect a guy to get attached and addicted to them, but the jerk's interest level in a woman isn't very high thus he can walk away at anytime and this seperates him from the rest. This is the mysteriousness and unpredictability that they find attractive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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