im so bad at it. i was just talking to this girl ive been dating and i really couldn't come up with stuff to say. i am very shy and so is she so its really hard to communicate over the phone with her. i set up our next date and had really nothing else. she said i even sounded rude when i don't even mean to be b/c im so shy. when we text each other, it works much better. when we talk in person its a lot easier as well. what should i do? just keep texting her instead of talking on the phone and just talk to her in person? help.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
i suck at talking on the phone
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