"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I struck out...

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Berlex

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...but I am not at all upset about it. Here's what happened: I went down to the lobby to get a pop (I live in the dorms). Near the pop machine I see a cute brunette reading a book. I buy my pop and casually ask what she was reading. We talk for about 15 minutes until she had to leave. She seemed interested so I asked for a date but I was shot down. I didn't get a date, but it did cure my current one-itis. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sexy_kuta

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she probably felt that u were moving too fast

should have asked for a number and maybe u could have got it

but dont stop now keep gettin more fishes
 
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onya for putting yourself out there. good luck getting over the oneitis
 
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These guys are right I’m a strong believer that you should never ask a girl on a date when your first meet her. Usually you should get her number and call the next day or the day after don't wait 3-4 days that’s bull**** to.

Get the number and give her a call next time. With women it's all about anticipation she would rather go home thinking..........

"Is that interesting guy i met today goign to call me?"

"Is he goign to ask me out?"

If you ask her right then and there you ruin the whole anticipation.

But you did good man this whole game is about practice. So keep at it and learn fromy our mistakes.

Angelus
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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