"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I stink - literally!

onthepath

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far out i'm a stinky bastard
in particular it's my breath and my feet
as far as i know it's not a matter of hygeine

for my breath, i have this white sh!t that forms over my tongue and i know that's the source of the bad breath - i scrape it off and hello, it' sback in no time - i chew gum and mints all the time but i think it just comes out as a mix of disgustingness

as to my feet, they stink whenever they heat up. now my sense of smell sucks, but even i can smell it. i dont know how to stop it - the "best" advice i've gotten (and even if it improved alittle it still stinks) was to wear leather shoes, like leather on the inside
thongs is impractical - i'm a uni student and everyday into uni i have some walking through a wet grassy park

please guys, some advice :(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Throttle

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for the halitosis, brush your teeth & tongue regularly, use something like listerine afterwards, and get rid of the mints & gum -- just more fodder for stuff to grow on (unless it's sugarless, and then you're still better off without it).
 

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Hmm. For the tounge, try changing your diet to a healthy, clean diet void of proccessed foods and sugars. Also try listerine wash and a plaque fighting tooth paste.

For your feet go get some medicated gold bond (the menthol flavor) powder and poor some in your shoes every day before you put them on.

Also try washing your shoes. If you have stinky shoes you will have stinky feet. Kind of a bad cycle.
 

Charm&Style

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how bout you go see a dentist...even if its a little pricey itll be worth it, after your dentist cleans your filthy mouth...take care of it.
 

napkin

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brush your teeth

wash your feet in the shower.

get some shoe balls. (go to your local Rack Room)

brush your teeth again.

get that stuff that you spray on your feet to make them smell good. Then spray it on your feet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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woods

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I think its called "breath assure." its like a mint you suck on for a minute, then swallow, and it internally helps your breath. Also, for some reason Parsley is known for helping bad breath too. google it for details.
 

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Boiling some parsley in a cup of distilled water will help. Try to stay away from Listerine or Scope they're alcohol based and will kill the good germs as well as the bad.

My friend used to suffer from yuck mouth and I advised him to eat some raw avocado every day for 1 week. After a week his digestive tract had been completely cleansed of any decomposition. Then I suggested he get a decent toothbrush and tongue scraper and a specialty toothpaste like Thereabreath (of which I am a devotee) to ward of bacterial growth.

He also chews Dr. Katz Therabreath chewing gum.

Most important though is to drink at least a half gallon of water per day every day.
 

dj ben2

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too lazy too reasd the replies so i dunno if its been answered but the white **** on ur tongue is because of lack of brushing..... when i started using listerine the white **** went away
 
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