I still get thrown by the "I have a Boyfriend" line

[Maximus Rex]

How Are Boyfriends Entering Into the Conversation?

I'm know your supposed to be ultra alpha and ignore it or reply with something witty ,but i dunno, the line still throws me.

I have to say, i don't hear it as often as i used to which may be a result of my state and approaching improving over the years but when i do hear it, i do generally then move to look at ejecting from the interaction rather than pushing through. Especially for daygame, i don't feel comfortable pushing things in a supermarket, it's not so bad in a nightclub.

Who's bringing up the boyfriend, you or her?

 

[VikingKing]

This happend to me a few weeks ago. This girl I see frequent some of the places I do (mostly the gym), well one day I saw her at subway. I was talking with some one and she sat at once place, then moved closer. After he left I approached and I just said "hey I see you at the gym sometimes, whats your name blabla" her its "blabla" "well you seem pretty cool, whats your number" "oh I have a boyfriend, but you can give me yours"

Lol I gave it to her, why not?

Anyway Now when I see her she can't even look at me. She gets this nervous smile on her face, and I know she probably notices me more than I notice her. She can't even look. haha.

I just kind of had a sh!t eating grin on my face, infact I laughed after I saw her acting all shy about it, and being afraid to look at me.

I just ignore her now.

But why does she afraid to even look at me? Maybe she was abused or somthing as a kid? Or what? Why fearful?

 

[JaegerPilot217]

One girl, a hot Israeli girl who works at the local mall, I assume she is saying this just because she gets paid for being nice and friendly, she sells these skin lotion/cream products, i've bought some not because of her but for my own benefit, she calls me Honey and at one point said "My Love" over and over when addressing me, I laughed and said to her how its funny you keep calling me that, and she said after that "your just so cute and sweet", and I wasn't even trying to seek approval from her in the first place, she was saying that to me even before I complimented her, I then asked her if she has a boyfriend, well a long distance one in Israel, after she said yes that she has a boyfriend, I said to her because I was gonna ask you out on a date, and she said that's very sweet and kind of you, but what really caught me and made me not so sure, is that she told me that if she was single she would date me, go out with me, that was something new to me, before from girls after they say "IHAB", they would say something like that's sweet of you, but not that I would go out with you if I were single, but my gut feeling tells me she is just doing her job by working in customer service

 

[nismo-4]

One girl, a hot Israeli girl who works at the local mall, I assume she is saying this just because she gets paid for being nice and friendly, she sells these skin lotion/cream products, i've bought some not because of her but for my own benefit, she calls me Honey and at one point said "My Love" over and over when addressing me, I laughed and said to her how its funny you keep calling me that, and she said after that "your just so cute and sweet", and I wasn't even trying to seek approval from her in the first place, she was saying that to me even before I complimented her, I then asked her if she has a boyfriend, well a long distance one in Israel, after she said yes that she has a boyfriend, I said to her because I was gonna ask you out on a date, and she said that's very sweet and kind of you, but what really caught me and made me not so sure, is that she told me that if she was single she would date me, go out with me, that was something new to me, before from girls after they say "IHAB", they would say something like that's sweet of you, but not that I would go out with you if I were single, but my gut feeling tells me she is just doing her job by working in customer service

Get real! She just wants to be friends. I don't mess with women who are paid to be nice, and this case is proof positive why.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Get real! She just wants to be friends. I don't mess with women who are paid to be nice, and this case is proof positive why.

yeah sounds like the right way it do it

 

[Cerwin Vega]

One girl, a hot Israeli girl who works at the local mall, I assume she is saying this just because she gets paid for being nice and friendly, she sells these skin lotion/cream products, i've bought some not because of her but for my own benefit, she calls me Honey and at one point said "My Love" over and over when addressing me, I laughed and said to her how its funny you keep calling me that, and she said after that "your just so cute and sweet", and I wasn't even trying to seek approval from her in the first place, she was saying that to me even before I complimented her, I then asked her if she has a boyfriend, well a long distance one in Israel, after she said yes that she has a boyfriend, I said to her because I was gonna ask you out on a date, and she said that's very sweet and kind of you, but what really caught me and made me not so sure, is that she told me that if she was single she would date me, go out with me, that was something new to me, before from girls after they say "IHAB", they would say something like that's sweet of you, but not that I would go out with you if I were single, but my gut feeling tells me she is just doing her job by working in customer service

I'm sorry to tell you this but you became a victim to one of the biggest Israeli scams.

In Israel it's called "עגלות", where you go to a country and sell PURE SH!T to unsuspecting costumers. It's usually either mud or Vaseline and fragrances.

The girls are taught to do everything they can you make you buy the expensive products, aside of that, in Israel it's very common to call someone "love of my life", "honey" or something like that, even if you barely know the person. ****ed up? I agree.

I'm an Israeli, ask me anything.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I'm sorry to tell you this but you became a victim to one of the biggest Israeli scams.

In Israel it's called "עגלות", where you go to a country and sell PURE SH!T to unsuspecting costumers. It's usually either mud or Vaseline and fragrances.

The girls are taught to do everything they can you make you buy the expensive products, aside of that, in Israel it's very common to call someone "love of my life", "honey" or something like that, even if you barely know the person. ****ed up? I agree.

I'm an Israeli, ask me anything.

Yup, makes sense

 

[JaegerPilot217]

But at the same time, that Israeli girl, not only is she just so cute and hot, she just gives off this powerful feminine or fun energy when talking to her that makes her beyond attractive besides her looks, but anyway its best to be through with girls who are paid to be friendly and trying to sell you stuff

 

[TheGambino]

Means shes NOT interested, NEXT

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I would forget about her then