I still get thrown by the "I have a Boyfriend" line

[Peterpack]

I'm know your supposed to be ultra alpha and ignore it or reply with something witty ,but i dunno, the line still throws me.

I have to say, i don't hear it as often as i used to which may be a result of my state and approaching improving over the years but when i do hear it, i do generally then move to look at ejecting from the interaction rather than pushing through. Especially for daygame, i don't feel comfortable pushing things in a supermarket, it's not so bad in a nightclub.

 

[nismo-4]

Just walk away. If a woman is interested in you, she won't dare to use IHAB. And if she isn't, she'll remember to use it. And offer you a seat in the friendzone.

Don't waste your time on an uninterested chick.

 

[TheException]

Just walk away. If a woman is interested in you, she won't dare to use IHAB. And if she isn't, she'll remember to use it. And offer you a seat in the friendzone.

Don't waste your time on an uninterested chick.

Exactly.

You handle it by not handling it.

 

[sylvester the cat]

it's supposed to throw you. it's a polite way of saying 'i'm not interested'.

there is a school of thought that says you can push past this and it is possible to push past this but for the average Joe it's not going to happen.

 

[Helpabrotherout]

Well here's a good one. Tell her you have a gold fish, she says what? Say well I thought we were talking about **** that doesn't matter. Hopefully it'll get you a number if you play it right like I recently did.

 

[VladPatton]

Just eject, eff that. Say "oh well!" and wish her a fantastic day. Don't let it rattle you, it's a soft rejection.

 

[J Roc]

I just say "good luck" and keep it moving on the campaign trail.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I just say, "Sucks to be youuu" or "must suck to be you.." or "I don't...I would Never have one of them.."

 

[Dgwizdal]

I don't agree that ihabf is always a sign of disinterest but can be major sh*t test or a ***** shield she puts up to keep herself from cheating. I've banged girls who have said this before and meant it with my reply of "good thing he's not around, might get jealous of all the fun were going to have here/tonight/etc"

Key is to make sure you lean more on the side of funny in your facial expressions and tone so you don't come on too strong and you will be able to gauge her interest or eject on a more confident note than if you shut down immediately and walked away.

 

[goldengoose]

Haven't you guys learned anything about women yet?

Judge them by their actions, not their words.

She can say she has a boyfriend, then have sex with you two days later. A girlfriend can say she loves you, then cheat on you two weeks later.

Gauge her interest, if she shows interest, then proceed.

 

[Mike32ct]

The PUA method is to continue to harass uninterested women by "plowing" lol.

Just eject.

 

[skinnyguy]

The PUA method is to continue to harass uninterested women by "plowing" lol.

Just eject.

Lol totally man. OP should say "call me when you break up" and move on

 

[Peterpack]

Thanks guys, i don't feel so bad now

I have given out my business card and said "call me if it changes" before but i might change that to "call me if you ever want adventures and new experiences in your life" and then walk away.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Maybe some chicks really have a boyfriend? Gosh what are the chances of that?

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I had a chick tell me she was gay and she wasn't that great looking lol. Talk about getting knocked down a peg? Don't worry about it kid

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Either they really do have a boyfriend or they just say that to let you down easily

 

[nismo-4]

Either they really do have a boyfriend or they just say that to let you down easily

Either way, it's a rejection. Would a woman pull this on Brad Pitt or George Clooney? It's like getting friendzoned.

IHAB means nothing if you've already or are currently f**king her. Before that, eject. Unless you like hearing stories of how she's "getting beaten daily" (getting her vaginal walls stretched daily) like a weak beta orbiter.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Replies to "I Have a Boyfriend,"

"I Have a Boyfriend,"-http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18373

 

[devilkingx2]

if she uses that line, move on

if she doesn't have a BF and lies, her interest is as low as it could possibly be

if she does, then she does, and she doesn't want the D

if she doesn't say that(you directly asking her notwithstanding) and she has a BF, it was either never relevant(AKA you weren't gaming her) or she is interested and doesn't want you to lose your interest

if she doesn't say she has a BF and doesn't have a BF... no explanation needed.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I speak with words (insincerely) like it really angers me that she said ihab, but I let her know (subliminally) in my real underlying tones of speech that it really doesn't...kinna fvcks with her mind