"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I still don't get it

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
looks - check
money - check
height - I do what I can. lol
inner game - working on it.

hmmmm..?! then its your aura... you need to intensify it make it engulf these hos and sluts... Exude more sexual power ... deep eye contact and flirty light touches will help too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
let me expand upon this a little. It seems that other people that I am around just magnetically attract others without doing anything. People don't just come up and try to befriend ME. It seems as though I ALWAYS have to GO TO others. Yet for other people I observe, people just attempt to befriend them. Same with some guys - girls just start flirting with them.
Yes agreed, sadly I'm in the "I have to do everything and make all the effort with people, often for little reward" camp.

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so what are you doing to change that MM???

I still don't understand why I'm not as approachable as others seem to be. It must be some x factor! Maybe people are intimidated or maybe I'm just around the wrong crowd.
 

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
so what are you doing to change that MM???

I still don't understand why I'm not as approachable as others seem to be. It must be some x factor! Maybe people are intimidated or maybe I'm just around the wrong crowd.
Nothing, I like being a little moody and serious and I don't want to change my persona to be accepted since I'm curently not 'english enough'.

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