"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i started off in the friend zone

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ok im friends with a girl i really like now .weve been friends for a while but i never really got attracted to her .i know she likes me but she said that i come off as needy shes got a bf that im not too worried about she thinks hes cheating on her so thell be done soon what i wanna know is hows the best way to cover up needyness i ve been doing a few things but there not working to well for me i admit im a little needy but i wanna learn how to better cover it up
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't fulfill your neediness? Either you'll drive yourself nuts (which is sign #1), or you'll get over her (sign 2).

1. Which means you need to not only do step 2, but you need to reconsider your life
2. Yay! Getting over her is the best way, you are her FRIEND, she has a BOYFRIEND, she is "CHEATING" on him, you DON'T KNOW IF THAT'S TRUE and you are NEEDY. All bad things, and step 2 will cure each and every single one of them.
 

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i want this girl soo bad idk why but im confident that getting over my needy problem will have her running to me im just gonna suck it in and have less of a needy aroura and a ****y confident aroura i act pretty confident but i need things to say that give me that extra hint of confident flavor
 

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Dont' bother saying those things cable. I will do this, I will do that, you're planning to fail. Think about this for a second.
FRIEND
BOYFRIEND
"CHEATING"
DON'T KNOW IF THAT'S TRUE
NEEDY

So you'll eliminate needy.

FRIEND
BOYFRIEND
"CHEATING"
DON'T KNOW IF THAT'S TRUE

So, will C&F eliminate all 4 of these facts? Not in a lifetime. You may get some attention, but you won't get what you want. Since I don't think you understand how C&F works even, I won't even try giving you tips or links to seduction. All you would be doing is digging yourself a huge ass hole. Get out of it now, *****slap yourself and find some other girl.
 

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cablecow15 said:
i admit im a little needy but i wanna learn how to better cover it up
haha....don't cover it up change and become less needy, there is no benifit of being needy anytime in life.

You seem like you are still in friends with this girl...move on. NEXT
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oh no were not friends cause we just made out i guess im getting some where her bf was cheating on her she knows the girl that he cheated on her with so we went for a walk i rememberd all of the don juan conversation technics and guess what she just grabbed my shirt and we made out
im happy
 

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cablecow15 said:
oh no were not friends cause we just made out i guess im getting some where her bf was cheating on her she knows the girl that he cheated on her with so we went for a walk i rememberd all of the don juan conversation technics and guess what she just grabbed my shirt and we made out
im happy
What convo technics did you use?
 

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well i just rememberd to be sexual cokey and confident with the topics i chose but remember we were friends before this so she probobly felt more comfortable with me
 
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