"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I started boxing but it still hasn't changed my personality

Deicide

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I started boxing but it still hasn't changed my personality. I like doing it but I'm still the same person I was when I started, except more used to what is needed in boxing. Why is this? I'm getting better at it and like doing it and don't mind getting hit in the face, but nothing has changed with myself and women. It seems everyone else at my boxing gym has success with women and I'm the only one left out. So I'm not really sure, I'm glad to be busy with activities and living life to the fullest but women are a thing I've never been able to succeed in.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dice52987

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I believe the whole "tie-in" with boxing and women is that boxing increases your confidence in yourself, and of course a man with a high level of confidence will wet a girl's panties. So, be confident in yourself, and they'll come to you.
 

Violent V

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Boxing does not = women.

Taking up any hobby and being passionate in it= self confidence and joy = women.

Your focus is all wrong. The moment you really stop caring about the girls and more about you, is the moment women start finding you attractive.
 

ThreeStorms

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so true. Never do anything that is not directly PU related for the purpose of getting women. It's may only happen as a side effect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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