"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I started a website, with the help of a fellow sosuave memeber, thestarsolace.com

Fatal Jay

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I always wanted to make my own website, that was in it to help others. You guys check out the site, and make sure you leave your comments whether it's good or bad. The site been up for the first half of the month

www.thestarsolace.com

I will be back posting new articles the first day of next month.:rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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First thought: you can do better with the design. There's way too much white and black. At the very least, add in more gray. You could also go with some colors, but that's a bit more difficult to do. The layout could also use a refresh. It's not bad, but it could be better. But good job overall accomplishing your goal of making your own website! :up:
 

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Eph said:
First thought: you can do better with the design. There's way too much white and black. At the very least, add in more gray. You could also go with some colors, but that's a bit more difficult to do. The layout could also use a refresh. It's not bad, but it could be better. But good job overall accomplishing your goal of making your own website! :up:
Thanks, I would put that into consideration. I wanted the site to look as simple as possible with no annoying ads everywhere.
 

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Had a look. Is there a particular genre this website falls under? The site seems to cover all sorts of subjects.
 

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mangotot said:
Had a look. Is there a particular genre this website falls under? The site seems to cover all sorts of subjects.

All subjects, I wanted it to cover all things. Things that benefit men.

Thanks for checking it out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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