"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I sometimes see guys asking about why we start threads that don't pertain to women....

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...so I'd like to discuss this.

Often-times, mainly in the Anything Else section and more specifically political type posts, you'll see posters ask "why we care" and why we are discussing these things on a forum meant to help you bang women. Now, other than the fact that most of these posters are guys who are simply lashing out when their logic runs dry, I'd like to attempt to show why we do this.

1 - It's the Anything Else section. That's what it is here for.

2 - At some point, as men, "banging women" is not what it used to be. Funny enough, you start to see women as actual people, not a c*m rag. Don't get me wrong, I still see them as women and women are going to do women stuff. I am simply saying I don't devalue other human beings like I did (a little bit) when younger. I've learned that busting nuts on girls' faces and stuff like that is more perversion. At my age it's better to spend time with someone you like, and who likes you back.

3 - Mature men care about the world. They care about the place in which they are raising their families. Politics affect that. It's not a live-and-let-live world, never has been. You're a damned fool if you still subscribe to that line of thinking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The "why do you care?" Types are a bunch of young frat boy types who are still obsessed with women. Anything not related to money or women they don't wanna hear it.

There is also an obsession that these guys having with "not caring" and nonchalance, maybe because it can be a successful approach to women and it is seen as defiant.

They'll actually interrupt you during beer talk if it's not getting them closer to "dis money or da puzzy"
 

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Why do people respond to threads they are not interested in? That's a better question.
 

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Why do people respond to threads they are not interested in? That's a better question.
What does it matter. Whatever posts you take offense to, you can just report them and get them deleted, right.

Remember folks: The definition of suffering is trying to control things and people that we have no control over.

The complainers and victims in this world have their focus outside their circle of influence.
 

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Why should I care about this again?

Just kidding. Many people post that because they want to get a Master Don Juan tag of their own, but can't contribute anything meaningful due to lack of experience with the world beyond, as people explained, "bedding dem bitches, yo". I think you can make a max of 10 posts a day, which really puts the pressure on sometimes if you do want to respond to a meaningful conversation, so if you push out a thread that doesn't seem like good conversation ground, it raises the question of why they wasted 10% of their available posting time on that.

TL;DR version: It's the internet bruh, im a $wag monster and aint' givva two ****s bout anything but ME, so bow to tha king and make threads about ME AND MY HUSTLE, f@gs. #UnironicHashtag
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You care to discuss various items because that is what well rounded people do.

The other side of the coin is that, by discussing these items you are building a better understanding of EACH OTHER and, therefore respect for each other, and that will, believe it or not, help you become better conversationalists on the more controversial topics that are posted here
 

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how are these even mutually exclusive? The first doesn't even make sense when you understand the female id. Do you have a girlfriend that doesn't let you do it so now you get to be self-righteous about it?
I think it meant "Do I choose the girl who lets me bust a nut on her face, or the one I actually enjoy spending time around?" Choosing the girl who loves the hot glue, and hoping you'll eventually warm up to her ain't the best if you aren't going to turn her around when the glues empty.
 

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how are these even mutually exclusive? The first doesn't even make sense when you understand the female id. Do you have a girlfriend that doesn't let you do it so now you get to be self-righteous about it?
Ha, self-righteous, ok, if that's what you took from it. If you look at sex throughout history, I don't see a lot of busting on girls faces until the porn industry emerged, which plays on male fetishes.

I'm not going to say I don't like doing it and girls don't like taking it. Sometimes both happens. I'm simply saying that's not my overall goal. At least not anymore. Personally I prefer a girl sucking my nuts dry, feelzgoodman.
 
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