I sometimes feel like suiciding. Help please.

[sozzz]

My life was going ok, not great. I go to school, althought I got laid off, I didn't care much because I just wanted to go to school at the time. Been together with my girl for 2 years now, we love each other.

Eversince I got hemmorrhoids 2 months ago and still have it, it's so painful everytime I take a crap, most of the time, it's after I take it. I have gone to the doctor and he said take these creams and pills, which I have but I feel they are just for temporary relief, they don't cure it. I have been on the prescription for 1 and a half month now but nothing has changed.

I stay up all night a lot of time due to the pain. At one point, the pain would go away once I pad my hemmorrhoids with a hazel and some cream and let it rest then it goes away, but I felt that I have taken too much vimovo which is pain killers, I thought was causing the interna bleeding so I stopped taking them pills for 2 days. When I went to crap, It started hurting after I got done, it was painful!

I had 2 finals today, I thought I was not able to get up and walk but I clinch my teeth and drive 45 minutes to one of my colleges, and 45 minutes back to a different college. I cannot keep this lifestyle up anymore, I feel like my life is pretty much over and I just want to kill myself. I don't have insurance and although surgery is the last option, I heard they come back and there are some long term effects after surgery. I have been eating lots of fiber and drinking water but they don't seem to heal at all.

If anyone out there who suffers from hemmorrhoids, please share what you did to cure it, whether it took you a long time or a short time, please share it. I really appreciated.

 

[Alle_Gory]

My life was going ok, not great. I go to school, althought I got laid off, I didn't care much because I just wanted to go to school at the time. Been together with my girl for 2 years now, we love each other.

You have a big positive there. Stop focusing on the negative. Do you know how hard it is to find a good woman? Count yourself lucky. What's this nonsense about suicide in your thread title??

Eversince I got hemmorrhoids 2 months ago and still have it, it's so painful everytime I take a crap, most of the time, it's after I take it. I have gone to the doctor and he said take these creams and pills, which I have but I feel they are just for temporary relief, they don't cure it. I have been on the prescription for 1 and a half month now but nothing has changed.

Hemmorrhoids are enlarged blood vessels. The creams are simply steroids applied topically that cause the blood vessels to shrink. They are a temporary solution. Enlarged blood vessels can be caused by a variety of reasons.

How do I know? I had the same problem (although not as bad). Mine went away, I don't know why or how. Maybe it's because I stopped working out for awhile and therefore less blood pressure and stress on the area.

If anyone out there who suffers from hemmorrhoids, please share what you did to cure it, whether it took you a long time or a short time, please share it. I really appreciated.

I heard in really bad cases you can go to the doctor and they cauterize the veins in question.

I would suggest you PM Fuglydude since he's the health guy on the forum. He's a health professional and works in the field currently.

 

[sozzz]

She had this when she was 15 but they are gone. She told me she was using this liquid bottle herb for several months. I tried it for like a month and it seemed like nothing happening so I stopped. Maybe thats my problem, I'm too impatient. I will try using it again for several months and see what will happen. She knows my pain and told me not to go for surgery and try to eat healthy.

I'm thinking of telling her we should just stay friends because I can't do the things like we used to do, such as go out whenever, eat whatever, and do it whenever. I feel like when I have hemmorrhoids, I have to stay away from meat, spices, and sex all together. I used to have spinning more plates on my mind before, now that I have this and she still wants to stay with me and help me look for jobs so I could save up and we could get married eventhough several of her friends and old guys at work like her, she doesn't want them. These guys make $15+ to 25+ an hour. As for me, not only am I unemployed but I have no future as of right now. If she stays with me she'll suffer for sure, I can't deal with that. Having hemmorrhoids is enough as it is, I don't need to stress more. Most guys on hear always stress that it's hard to find a rare fish, when you catch one, hold on to it! I feel like I have found one that truly loves me not because of money but because of my personality. I feel bad for us though, if things go on like this, she'll be the one who supports me and her parents.

I will try anything before I go to the doctor for surgery. I will pm fulgydude to see if he could share his inputs on this matter. Thanks man.

 

[Bible_Belt]

A doctor can give you prescription medication to try before surgery.

There are also a lot of herbal concoctions that you can try:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/399398-is-there-an-herbal-medicine-for-hemorrhoids/
http://www.blogofherbs.com/herbs/hemorrhoids-my-2-day-quick-fix
http://www.hemroidharry.com/ingredients.html
http://www.healthguidance.org/entry...hoids--Aloe-Vera-Bilberry-Butchers-Broom.html
http://curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i=1346822#i

It would be cheaper to buy the ingredients separately than to purchase pre-made products.

 

[sozzz]

A doctor can give you prescription medication to try before surgery.

There are also a lot of herbal concoctions that you can try:
http://www.livestrong.com/article/399398-is-there-an-herbal-medicine-for-hemorrhoids/
http://www.blogofherbs.com/herbs/hemorrhoids-my-2-day-quick-fix
http://www.hemroidharry.com/ingredients.html
http://www.healthguidance.org/entry...hoids--Aloe-Vera-Bilberry-Butchers-Broom.html
http://curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i=1346822#i

It would be cheaper to buy the ingredients separately than to purchase pre-made products.

He did give me prescription medication to take. All he's given me so far are vimovo pills for pain relief, protocosol cream for external relief, and suppositories for internal relief... all of those are just temporary relief. I haven't checked the links yet but I hope they contain something that provides internal cure, because it starts from the inside not out. Thanks man.

 

[user43770]

You want your bowel movements to be as effortless as possible. This is achieved by introducing more fiber to your diet. Make sure that you're eating plenty of roughage. Also, stay away from foods that can cause constipation; meats, cheeses and processed foods are the main culprits. You can cheat a little with these, as long as you're still eating enough fruits and vegetables. You might even try a fiber supplement. Good luck.