"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I Slipped! Told her about Some of the Game.

slickaz

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ok i was on a date with this chic last night..
she is a new one, i didnt want to take her out or do anything because im moving countries in a week.
but she insisted so i said ok.

anyway when i told her im moving, she got very very upset, almost cried.
this was wierd to me because ive known her a total of maybe 8 hours.

anyway half way through the night we're a bit tipsy and walking down the road to her apartment when i bump into this dude that i know.

reason i know him = i slept with his brothers gf.

which he exclaimed loudly and ensured he told her that i commited a sin.
she laughed and said "yeh ill try not to make the same mistake" or smtn along those lines.

then after he walks away, she asks me why i did it, i said i dunno why she was hot and she was throwin game at me.
while explaining this i hear some one call out my name.
i turn and check theres this HB 9.5 latin american thick model that i used to sleep with in a car full of equally hott girls about to go out to a party. she walks up, clearly drunk and tries to kiss me on the lips. i gently settle her on the car.
she sayd to the girl im with "watch out for this guy...but he's worth the heart ache.."...this took the 8.5 i was with by surprise, anyway blah blah..i say bye.

We go back to her place on the way she asks more about me and why i left the HB9.5 we just met.
this is the fun part:

she asks me questions and usually im very closed book but i kinda let lose because
1. i was a little drunk
2. i was leaving the country.
3. i wanted to nail this chic.

i dunno why but i told her why i slept with the 9.8 and why i bounced
then she asked me "what is this 'game' you speak about"

to which i couldnt shut my mouth..
i explained some of he game to her..
not giving her the names but just explaining how attention hoes need to be treated differently to genuine girls etc. and how to get a chics number with the phone handing.. thats basically all i told her to which she was like
"WOW!!! that is SOOOO true!!! girls feel exactly that when you do stuff like this to em.." etc..

anyway, i realised i had slipped slightly and told her some of it..
after that she was giving more interest trying to find out more.

then she goes "ok,lets see if your tricks work on me.."
so i say "what like you want me to work to hook up with you?"
she: "yeh do yourmagic"
me: "nah its cool, ill just let you simmer there for a bit n maybe let you miss out on the most rewarding end to a long tiring day"
she: <<looks at my eyes and my lips>>
me: "ok, stop lookin at my lips like ur gonna ravage them n suck the life out of them"
<<i was hoping this would start getting her to think about the kissing and how good it feels>>
she: "well ur times tickin..."
so i leaned over n said "ur very good at your game, you've got me sittin in your apartment and giving you what want..you need to teach me more skill"

<<i tried to turn it over on her like she was the one gaming me>>

she: "yeh you messed with the wrong chic...watch and learn"
and then she kisses me..

and i woke up this morning and drove from her place to work.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MisterMcGee

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You didn't tell her about the game, you told her about socially interacting with girls. Just don't say 'gaming' cause it's a stupid word.
 

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YOu ain't smashed?

ROFLLLLLLLLLL

I ain't mad at you mayn, we all do stupid **** when we drunk, hell I still use the "im gay" line half the time when Im bent just to wipe out a **** close

what country you at again?
 

slickaz

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naw what i meant is i did smash it..
stayed over at her place up until 3 am.
girl serves it like the williams sister on grass man!

i just didnt wanna say it in my post..lol..

at the moment im in New Zealand.i just flew in from Japan tuesday.
its thursday here.

yeh i guess i didnt tell her alot...just didnt know where to draw the line..

but it seemed to have worked in my favour
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think it worked for you because in some way it demonstrated value for you. Your game works and you can have almost any girl you want (it was proven to that girl by the people who approached you). If somebody had just started talking about game with no obvious results it would have been a turnoff. Instead it created some value for you.

Just don't tell them about our secret DJ handshake ok?
 

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Dude you didn't slip; this stuff is mainstream thanks to VH1 and MTV.
 

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lol..actually thats true..she did mention about some stuff she sees on that show with Tequila whateever..i dont watch tv alot man so i dunno really know the name.

anyway yeh ok i get it.i didnt say much..u guys are sad man!!..lol..i didnt know if we should be saying ANYTHING at all.. even about how to get numbers etc.

like i remember between when i told her and we got to her door, she said she wants a frozen coke. so i stopped by at a shop and i said why would you have frozen coke in the middle of the night?! its cold out!..lol

she went something like "just coz of that and you trying to play your games on me im gonna get a frozen coke and not a coke!" or smtn like that..

i figured then i had shared too much that she thinks i use this "knowledge" to control her..which i dont do but anyway..i get it.

PS: Noob: na man thats the dude with the user name NYCPimp (i could be wrong)...im a senior global business consultant, hence why i travel alot.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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