"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Shiz Nizzle
Never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever burn a bridge
What's wrong with burning bridges if you don't want to associate with that person anymore??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by MVP
What's wrong with burning bridges if you don't want to associate with that person anymore??
You far underestimate the power of the future. She could turn smoking hot and she'll remember how much of an asshole you were last time, or she could be a co-worker, or even poison your friends against you.

Even if you don't want to see her again, what's the point of acting like an asshole for the minor ego boost?
 

J.R.G.G

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guitarist, youre on the right track about the ''not giving a f()ck attitude''


But what you did wasnt DJ at all, what your text did was show a 15 yr old boy attitude not a men's response.


Its good that you understand your mistake, but youre still missing the point, its not because you went too harsh, its just that it was immature.
 

Don Juanabbe

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Originally posted by Shiz Nizzle
You young whipper snappers.

Never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever burn a bridge with the exception of a few rare situations.
Yeah, you never know, a few weeks/months down the road, you may cross paths with said chick again, and get in there. I don't burn bridges. I just say 'best of luck' and act like it's no big deal. Then you keep them wondering why you weren't that upset about getting the elbow.
 

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Well shs strange if shes messaging You after date that shes back with bf. It means shes loyal. i cant belive it. She prolly wanted to have sex with You but to make sure You gonna be just **** buddy!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well, even if she did want to have sex with me or something, I wouldn't because I consider it wrong to do **** with someone else's girl. Yeah, I might hit on them, but I would never do that. I mean, how would I like it if someone fvcked my chick?
Anyways, I really doubt we'd see each other again. We go to different schools, and I live in a large city, and she lives on the opposite side of the city with a different group of friends. It was just a fluke that she came to one of our parties.

Don't forget about the multitudes of other numbers I've gotten that are much more promising than she ever was!


"To do what ought to be done, but would not have been done unless I did it, I thought to be my duty" -Robert Morrison
 
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