(Yeah, I already pouted about this crap under a different name and thread.)
There's this bird I was seeing. Things went to hell thanks to my godaweful drinking habit, and I got a couple of LJBF's speeches. Thing is, she never really acted like "just a friend" after that. It was always either condescending bullshlt, or she would act TOO friendly. Whatever. I got sick of her crap, and cut contact. Stupid thing is, the last thing I did was invite her over to this party I had, and she never showed up (dissed). So after a bottle of brandy, I sent a bunch of annoying text messages. The final one was the worst. I confessed that I really did like her, but I didn't want to see her ever again. Duh.
After like two months, I ran into her at the bar. I wasn't going to talk to her, but my buddy went over and chatted her up. Damnit. Now I had to go over.
First thing she tells me is that she sent me a text a few minutes earlier, which read "Do you still hate me?". I never told her that I hated her, but whatever. I just looked at it, made a joke and sat down.
Things went fine for a while. Mindless drivel conversation really. She pulled a little kino, I kept it to a minimum. Then some poofter popped up in another part of the bar. She lost her composure, and said something to her friend about how she called him the other day, but he hasn't called back. Her friend told her to ignore him, as it's apparently his turn to call her. Blah blah blah, who really gives a shlt, right?
Eventually she went over and started talking to him. I ignored this, and chatted up her friend, who's a lesbian, but she laughs at everything I say, so what the hell. Oh, and if you're wondering why I wasn't talking to anyone else, it's because this bar started attracting a large gay and lesbian crowd lately, so I don't approach anyone I don't know.
The girl I was into comes back over, seemingly in a stupor. Then she takes her friend into the bathroom. They come back, fvcking guy comes over, says he's leaving, and she grabs her purse and gets up. Her friend asks if she's leaving, but she says she's just saying bye. She gave him a hug, and he fvcked off. Probably to apply some more hair product or something.
By now the girl is a total wreck. Either this guy doesn't dig her, he does but she's scaring him off, or he's running really tight game. Or he's gay. Either way, he's obviously effecting her. She's acting the same way she used to about me over this other guy. I payed no mind to her behaviour, but I reconed it was time to bounce.
The girls wanted me to walk them to their car, so I did. I got a hug and a slap on the ass from the one who was pining over that dink a few minutes earlier. I returned the favor, said see ya around and took off.
Anyway, I don't know what to do now. Obviously I won't contact her, but what do I do if I see her again, or if she calls me. I don't know why she sent me a text and wanted me to sit with her, after I blatently told her to go a get fvcked a few months back. I made it a point to let her know that I didn't lose much sleep over her, and have been hooking up with other girls. Problem is, I still prefer her above all others, and would like to give it another go, without seeming like I want to.
There's this bird I was seeing. Things went to hell thanks to my godaweful drinking habit, and I got a couple of LJBF's speeches. Thing is, she never really acted like "just a friend" after that. It was always either condescending bullshlt, or she would act TOO friendly. Whatever. I got sick of her crap, and cut contact. Stupid thing is, the last thing I did was invite her over to this party I had, and she never showed up (dissed). So after a bottle of brandy, I sent a bunch of annoying text messages. The final one was the worst. I confessed that I really did like her, but I didn't want to see her ever again. Duh.
After like two months, I ran into her at the bar. I wasn't going to talk to her, but my buddy went over and chatted her up. Damnit. Now I had to go over.
First thing she tells me is that she sent me a text a few minutes earlier, which read "Do you still hate me?". I never told her that I hated her, but whatever. I just looked at it, made a joke and sat down.
Things went fine for a while. Mindless drivel conversation really. She pulled a little kino, I kept it to a minimum. Then some poofter popped up in another part of the bar. She lost her composure, and said something to her friend about how she called him the other day, but he hasn't called back. Her friend told her to ignore him, as it's apparently his turn to call her. Blah blah blah, who really gives a shlt, right?
Eventually she went over and started talking to him. I ignored this, and chatted up her friend, who's a lesbian, but she laughs at everything I say, so what the hell. Oh, and if you're wondering why I wasn't talking to anyone else, it's because this bar started attracting a large gay and lesbian crowd lately, so I don't approach anyone I don't know.
The girl I was into comes back over, seemingly in a stupor. Then she takes her friend into the bathroom. They come back, fvcking guy comes over, says he's leaving, and she grabs her purse and gets up. Her friend asks if she's leaving, but she says she's just saying bye. She gave him a hug, and he fvcked off. Probably to apply some more hair product or something.
By now the girl is a total wreck. Either this guy doesn't dig her, he does but she's scaring him off, or he's running really tight game. Or he's gay. Either way, he's obviously effecting her. She's acting the same way she used to about me over this other guy. I payed no mind to her behaviour, but I reconed it was time to bounce.
The girls wanted me to walk them to their car, so I did. I got a hug and a slap on the ass from the one who was pining over that dink a few minutes earlier. I returned the favor, said see ya around and took off.
Anyway, I don't know what to do now. Obviously I won't contact her, but what do I do if I see her again, or if she calls me. I don't know why she sent me a text and wanted me to sit with her, after I blatently told her to go a get fvcked a few months back. I made it a point to let her know that I didn't lose much sleep over her, and have been hooking up with other girls. Problem is, I still prefer her above all others, and would like to give it another go, without seeming like I want to.
. Have you ever heard of bein assertive.