"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I should have said this.

theapprentice

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A while back these two girls really negged me badly, I was at a 7 elven and they where walking by and they were wearing hoodies that had out of state colleges on them.

So I said "Hey are you guys from that college (on the shirt)
She said "Does it fu*ckin look like we are from (college)

I was so shocked that I coudnt think of anything to say other than give them a dirty and surprised look.

This happened about a month ago and I am really pissed that I didnt say more. This rejection sticks with me. I mean I could have at least cursed them back out but I was too afraid to do so, I thought I was going to get beat up by their bf's who were "probably" waiting outside, and I didnt know for sure if there where any guys with them.

I should have said.... (I live in NYC)

She said "Does it fu*ckin look like we are from (out of state college)?
Me: No your right who*res are usually from New York.

Man it makes me so mad to think about women and their nerve. While they run around screaming harasement when a man says anything bad to them.

This taught me to stop giving a damn about women, that some of them are crazy and there not to be taken seriously, especially the things they say otherwise you would go crazy.

She was with two of her friends and Im sure she said that to make herself feel better and look better.

My standard response to anything that a woman says that disrespects me anymore is "go F*uck yourself" no matter who she is. Im generally not a confrontational person, but its time to step up to the plate and give them a taste, especially those who think there too good for me, dont know what they got comming.

At least I know that, that is the worst that can happen and I wont be surprised if another woman said that to me agian.

Just giving you guys a heads up on how mean girls can be, when they bit*ch that men are mean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She said "Does it fu*ckin look like we are from (college)
Me: No, it looks like you came from some woman's uterus, but that's beside the point.

I know how snotty women can be. They're the exception to the women who are actually friendly. Don't let it bother you. They can go on and enjoy shoving bananas and cucumbers into themselves while the friendly women get the real deal ;)
 

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theapprentice said:
A while back these two girls really negged me badly, I was at a 7 elven and they where walking by and they were wearing hoodies that had out of state colleges on them.

So I said "Hey are you guys from that college (on the shirt)
She said "Does it fu*ckin look like we are from (college)
Assuming this is INSIDE the 7/11:

Me: OOooooh, I see. You're here for tampons: they're right over there. *point*
 
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