It depends on how you eject. If you leave as the prize to be won, who won't accept such terrible manner, then the woman will be chasing you and the guy will feel that he's getting your leftovers. Precisely because you stayed there for a long time (meaning you entered the competition) then left at the end without her (you lost), he would think he's won her.Being_the_Don said:
You don't orbit around a woman trying to compete with other orbiters (AFCs). You make her ditch her orbiters to come to you.