"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I seem to do better w/girls at clubs whenever I am sick??

Blackmm

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I've noticed that whenever I go to clubs when I am feeling ill (friend dragged me out or something) that I get better IOI and action in general whenever I am sick or not feeling good. I am wondering if it is just I pretty much have an "I don't care about a HO, I'm just trying to not pass out" attitude that is the reason. Anyone else have similar situations?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tick37

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DonGorgon said:
cause when you are sick you can be disconnected which to women comes across as layed back and not desperate...
I agree.
 
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