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I seem to do better w/girls at clubs whenever I am sick??

Blackmm

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I've noticed that whenever I go to clubs when I am feeling ill (friend dragged me out or something) that I get better IOI and action in general whenever I am sick or not feeling good. I am wondering if it is just I pretty much have an "I don't care about a HO, I'm just trying to not pass out" attitude that is the reason. Anyone else have similar situations?
 

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tick37

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DonGorgon said:
cause when you are sick you can be disconnected which to women comes across as layed back and not desperate...
I agree.
 
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