"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I see this girl

pvf94

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in person, and whenever I do she doesnt say anything to me except hi and bye.

And she tells me on myspace that she wants a photo like mine, and that we should go on a photoshoot. So I agree, and she im's me on AIM and starts chattin away and now we are supposed to hangout tommarrow......

first she acts like im the last person on earth she would want to talk to, and now shes giddy about going out 1 on 1 with me in a private place.

Probably known her a good 2 yrs, and shes spoken less than 20 words to me.

I even number closed on aim and all that, wtf?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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now shes a limp noodle on aim.


Still gonna call her like I am supposed to tomm afternoon to meet up.

wish me luck!
 

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why bother, is she the only prospect in your life?
 
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