"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I see a lot of guys who make websites for a living on here, I have a question
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It all depends. You have to pay for hosting and a domain name. Usually, the domain name comes with the hosting plan, but you can buy it separate so they aren't tied together. If you're going to pay for someone else to actually do the coding it also depends on what exactly you're looking for. A static website (ex: landing page) is pretty easy to do, and so is pretty cheap. The harder it is to code, the more it'll cost you. You've got a range of options though. You can pay flat-fee, or you can pay hourly. Its a buyer's market.Fatal Jay said:
What type of website were you looking into creating?
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Don't put the cart before the horse. Start a free blog on wordpress or blogger, it's got everything you need to get started.Fatal Jay said:
THEN start blogging and build your audience. Once you've got a decent audience, you can then spend some cash to build your own site.
This is how all the "gurus" that blog on game got started. Blog for free, build some traffic, then once you KNOW you've got readers, then spend the cash to have a site built.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
But yeah, like Taiyuu_Otoko said, you might wanna look at just a domain name (don't use the free subdomains; ie: .blogspot.com) and one of the free options for now. Get some traffic going, and then expand.
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My blog/website is probably similar to the one that you're looking to design.Fatal Jay said:
You can use any of the blogger engines out there (wordpress, blogger), pay for a domain name, and have the domain linked to your blog account.
The thing about my site is I needed webspace for storage. I fork out about $100 ever two years for my domain name, unlimited storage, and unlimited bandwidth. If you just want a domain, it's going to be much cheaper.
Agreed 100%, and this is exactly how I did mine. There's a lot of popular blogs out there that don't pay 5hit. It all boils down to necessity. For me, it became absolutely necessary that I have webspace to store all my 5hit because all the free services were too unreliable and it was pissing off my readers. Get what you need out of necessity instead of dreaming big and wasting money.taiyuu_otoko said:
The biggest challenge you'll have is building up an audience. Find websites or blogs that are similar to yours. Send them an email telling them that you like their site and are adding a link to it on your site. Send them a link to your site and ask them to check it out. If they like your stuff, they'll add you as well.
Once you build up a decent audience, it will keep itself going as long as you keep updating. Longevity will also play a big role in attracting people; the more stuff you post, the more likely people will show up from google and direct links to your stuff.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.