"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I said I was 24

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I met this one chick about 2 weeks ago and all that jive. She's 22 and I'm actually 18 when I told her I was 24. She wants to hang out tonight but says she's unsure of my age. I know I shouldn't have been dishonest about this, but now that I'm in this rut, what should I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I already made out with her when we met and I already expresssed my underlying concerns to her about "doing it" and she apparently doesn't drink.
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
i'll tell u what you do.

u hope she doesnt ask u to buy some beer.
That would suck. :crackup:
 

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she's unsure, meaning what?

meaning she doesnt believe you're actually 24?

or meaning she believes you're 24 but doesnt want to be with such an older guy?


anyway next time come up with a more believable lie. you added 6 years to your age, thats a lot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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she says she believes that I am 24 but is still a little doubtful about that because my face is the one of a 19 year old. I discovered the fountain of youth?
 

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you put on 6 years?? thats way too much... Just hope she doesnt bring it up again and dont even bring up the age thing
 

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True it is hard enough to get away with 4 years. when I was 14 and at a liquor store a bunch of drunks got in a fight and then later they were screwing with me and this couple was talking to me and the dude was like "He's only 18 leave him alone"

Of course my friend was talking to this chick and lied about his age and then came clean and she said it was cool. Of course he is an AFC. So you just have to slowly stop talking ot her. Lying is never the way to go. lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tell her that you get 'facials' every other week. Make sure you look up the name of some spa in your area first!

If she asks what they do then you say "glycolic exfoliation".
 

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If she asks what they do then you say "glycolic exfoliation".

WTF? Then she'd think you were some kind of gay, high-heel wearing poof.
 
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