"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I said...I love you...

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anyways last ngiht we were at my house about 4 in the morning...we slept from 1 till 4..then start making out..getting it on....after about 40 min..we slowed down and kissed.

and I justr said I love you..it just came out...

she smiled and kissed me and said I love you too.

we talked about the relief of getting it over and moving forward now....


so in hellboys words..this one was the right one. :)

:woo:


yes I do love her....she loves me.

and I can guarentee you to tall the guys who says hogwash with love.


its blows anything away!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well if you're happy we're happy for you.....just don't get all soft on us now;)
 
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45 days or so....

friends for 2 yrs before hand.

I wont get too soft :)

haha!

no im not getting soft!

im still a DJ with her..a romantic sometimes sappy one :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i will be 23 in sept.

thats ok...thats ur opinion.


im not bragging...but ive shagged about 25 women.

I have no more desire for meaningless encounters


:)
 
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Originally posted by frivolousz21
i will be 23 in sept.


im not bragging...but ive shagged about 25 women.



:)
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Haha, i love how guys aways bring up their score.

Anyway dude, if you are in love with her and you feel/know that shes in love with you, theres no reason justify to us. It's part of life to be in love you know. And doesn't matter what all these guys saying if you are too young or not. Remember this, IT'S YOU that are in the relationship with your gf not them so they don't know how you guys feel for each other.
 
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the 1st time it was said to me i almost fell off my couch! i was so taken back i didnt know how to respond..... this was me


Her: did i ever tell you that I'm in love with you

Me: uhhhhhhh, are you sure??????
(said with the most dumb-founded look on my face)

she took my response like a champ because she knew it threw me for loop... i just wasnt expecting that to come out of her mouth

its funny to think back now and realize how big of a dope i was with her in the past...

theres something to be said about finding a girl that you can totally put your guard down to and feel comfortable in your own skin when with each other...
 
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theres something to be said about finding a girl that you can totally put your guard down to and feel comfortable in your own skin when with each other...
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I like that...and thats how it is..when this happens..

I really cant explain it to the guys here who have never expierenced this.

thats why people always say they dont have the words to desribe it. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by pimpdatass
Just be careful from now on because from my experience once you "I love you" has been exchanged, things get really good for a bit, then downhill!!!
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I can relate to that, but falling in love, being in love, and being loved is a beautiful rare things in the days of today, and if u have found real love, then hold on to it, and dont get distracted by ANYONE that might call you "soft" etc.... Congrads, I wish u 2 the best of luck;)


Laterz...
 
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Congratulations Friv!! :cheer:
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Haha, i love how guys aways bring up their score.

Anyway dude, if you are in love with her and you feel/know that shes in love with you, theres no reason justify to us. It's part of life to be in love you know. And doesn't matter what all these guys saying if you are too young or not. Remember this, IT'S YOU that are in the relationship with your gf not them so they don't know how you guys feel for each other.
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So true...Gosh I think I'm in love with this man. really... why do guys bring up their score? You guys still thik that the more the better or even worse the more experiece you get? WRONG! ... by the way I'm happy that you found the one! :rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sounds good man!! imo love is only AFC if the people hang on to each other and cant let go when things are running downhill. cheerish the feeling it's not easy for a DJ to feel love!!
 
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I wasnt trying to brag on my score.

i was showing that im done with the whole getting with chicks thing :)
 
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so in hellboys words..this one was the right one
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:) You already knew it.

You did the right thing waiting, and making her feel it before you said it. My girl had a lot of priming before I would say that to her.

I just got back from 9 days holiday with my GF and we've been going through the same depth of feelings. We both agree that we're pretty much in love with each other. It will be 3 months this coming Saturday, and it's already the most amazing time of my life. I've never met a girl like this before. And believe me I've tried!

So I'm right there with you dude :)

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Regardless of any warnings you get and the heartbreak you might end up with, being in love with someone is simply awesome.

That super-gay movie with Nicole Kidman is right... (getting nauseated)... "it's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" (or some sh!t)

real men don't shy away from experiencing such things.

enjoy the ride and the growth. and if you find yourself madly in love, never hold back.

congrats.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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