"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New Years Resolutions

1. I resolve to put myself before other even my own son

2. to make six times as much as I did last year

3. To start bjj and then muay thai

4. work on free style

5. go to school

6. to get more religious

Happy New Years
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chosen1 said:
New Years Resolutions

1. I resolve to put myself before other even my own son

2. to make six times as much as I did last year

3. To start bjj and then muay thai

4. work on free style

5. go to school

6. to get more religious

Happy New Years
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Noooooooo


You should check out Richard Dawkins.
 
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Chosen1 said:
New Years Resolutions

1. I resolve to put myself before other even my own son

2. to make six times as much as I did last year

3. To start bjj and then muay thai

4. work on free style

5. go to school

6. to get more religious

Happy New Years
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Noooooooo


You should check out Richard Dawkins.
 
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If you search for the truth with all your heart, you will find it. and the truth shall make you free.
 
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Chosen1 said:
6. to get more religious
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Personally, I have chosen something worthwhile like being kinder to people, and strive to do the right thing in any situation instead of what just feels good.

But more religious? Do you mean preaching and converting people? Studying about the various religions around the world? Attending church only to sleep during the service?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alle_Gory said:
Personally, I have chosen something worthwhile like being kinder to people, and strive to do the right thing in any situation instead of what just feels good.

But more religious? Do you mean preaching and converting people? Studying about the various religions around the world? Attending church only to sleep during the service?
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no i mean actually learning the bible doing whats right
 
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i also resolute to going to army and never giving head (to females) again
 
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no i mean actually learning the bible doing whats right
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Doing the right thing... even the stuff that contradicts the other stuff?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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