AlexTheGreat
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... and now I'm feeling weird ...
OK, from the beginning : I start dating this girl who was at my school, but who I hadn't seen for two years. We meet at this girl's party, and hit it off. Important note, we "dated" the summer two years ago, but I went in vacation and when I got back, she had found some other punk.
Ok, so as I was saying we hit it off, start dating, ... for about a month, it's going great. Then, I try to organize another date, she and she says "oh, I've met this old friend, and now we're going out, so if I were to hang out with you, I'd feel like I'd be cheating on him". I reply to her "alright" and block/delete her from MSN and from hotmail. Or so I thought.
A week later, she starts talking to me online, on MSN. I was pretty cold with her, and she leaves. The next week, she starts talking again (weird thing is I'm sure I had blocked her ....
) Anyways, NOW, two weeks later, she says she's sorry. She starts telling me how "Ohh the other guy hasn't talked to her in 5 days and she's really pissed at him". I'm like "ahh, cool. What's it gotta do with me ?" The she starts telling me how sorry she is for dumping me like that. That she still has the same feelings for me as she did before, but for the other guy they're disappearing quite quickly. I then tell her "I,m sorry, but I don't feel the same way for you".
Anyways, it goes on like this, she asks if we could still be friends, I tell her I don't know. Not for the moment, at least. Then, as I had to leave, I tell her "next time, think a little more : who really cares about you, and who do you really care about." and I leave.
The thing is, in a way, I feel happy, cuz I've gotten that off my chest : I rejected her. I don't think I'd be able to go with her again, cuz if "her feelings for me are still the same" as she said, wouldn't that open the door to another session of crappage like this ?
But, in hte other way, I'm kindda sad, cuz I did really like her, so ... Welll I guess I'm just looking for someone to tell me I did the right thing here ....
OK, from the beginning : I start dating this girl who was at my school, but who I hadn't seen for two years. We meet at this girl's party, and hit it off. Important note, we "dated" the summer two years ago, but I went in vacation and when I got back, she had found some other punk.
Ok, so as I was saying we hit it off, start dating, ... for about a month, it's going great. Then, I try to organize another date, she and she says "oh, I've met this old friend, and now we're going out, so if I were to hang out with you, I'd feel like I'd be cheating on him". I reply to her "alright" and block/delete her from MSN and from hotmail. Or so I thought.
A week later, she starts talking to me online, on MSN. I was pretty cold with her, and she leaves. The next week, she starts talking again (weird thing is I'm sure I had blocked her ....
) Anyways, NOW, two weeks later, she says she's sorry. She starts telling me how "Ohh the other guy hasn't talked to her in 5 days and she's really pissed at him". I'm like "ahh, cool. What's it gotta do with me ?" The she starts telling me how sorry she is for dumping me like that. That she still has the same feelings for me as she did before, but for the other guy they're disappearing quite quickly. I then tell her "I,m sorry, but I don't feel the same way for you".Anyways, it goes on like this, she asks if we could still be friends, I tell her I don't know. Not for the moment, at least. Then, as I had to leave, I tell her "next time, think a little more : who really cares about you, and who do you really care about." and I leave.
The thing is, in a way, I feel happy, cuz I've gotten that off my chest : I rejected her. I don't think I'd be able to go with her again, cuz if "her feelings for me are still the same" as she said, wouldn't that open the door to another session of crappage like this ?
But, in hte other way, I'm kindda sad, cuz I did really like her, so ... Welll I guess I'm just looking for someone to tell me I did the right thing here ....