"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I refuse to feel unmasculine anymore

XSilverStarboyX

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Ok I have this female friend of mine. Heres the deal. She thinks its ok to do whatever she wants with a guy, but she never went past 3rd base. Yet apparently I cant even talk to a girl without getting a lecture on how Im a dirty little pervert. Well I finally had enough. Heres how it went when she told me she had a mad makeout session with a guy

Me: Sounds like you had fun. Let me ask, how come I want to go to 3rd base yet somehow Im the *******

Her: Because its all you seem to want to do.

Me: I barely even kissed a girl before, and humans are supposed ot want to do sexual things

Her: But it still seemed like thats all you want to do.

Me: Well your making me feel unmasculine. Cut it out!

Her: I did a bad thing?

Me: Yes you puts! Dont try making me a woman just because no other females will talk to you


Anyone ever run into this problem with girls? I got tired of feeling guilty for just talking to a girl or wanting to do certain things. I felt its time to let loose the inner DJ
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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[]D [] []V[] []D

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so are you having troubles with girls thinking your a perv? or that your a women?

...or both?
 

GuitarOnFire

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You're coming across as either insecure or wimpish. Why are you listening to her stories anyways?
 

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[]D [] []V[] []D said:
so are you having troubles with girls thinking your a perv? or that your a women?

...or both?
No it was like this, I told her I wanted to try kissing and stuff like that. She gets mad and blows up. But, she tells me how she has mad makeout sessions and somehow its ok for her to do that. I said stop trying to make me a female because Im tired of her trying to lower my masculinity level
 

XSilverStarboyX

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GuitarOnFire said:
You're coming across as either insecure or wimpish. Why are you listening to her stories anyways?
I ask myself the same thing. I tell her shes full of it each time and I still get the message of what shes saying. So this is why I finally stepped up to the plate and smashed her right to the ground
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dannowillbookem

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are you guys dating or something? why should she give a flying fuuck?


anyways, never tell a girl you wanna kiss her. its bad moves, man. just do it. if she wants you the confidence will tide you over (make sure youre alone though) and if she doesnt, its a quick end to that. this girl sounds like an attention *****. play tough with her and if that doesnt work, nexttttt
 

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lol i liked how you handled that...

but seriously..why is she worried about your business?
 

XSilverStarboyX

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dannowillbookem said:
are you guys dating or something? why should she give a flying fuuck?


anyways, never tell a girl you wanna kiss her. its bad moves, man. just do it. if she wants you the confidence will tide you over (make sure youre alone though) and if she doesnt, its a quick end to that. this girl sounds like an attention *****. play tough with her and if that doesnt work, nexttttt
Oh I never tell girls if I want to kiss them. She asked me what things I would ever try. I of course made her go first then I said making out along with other things. I would never date her
 
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