"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I refuse to feel unmasculine anymore

XSilverStarboyX

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Ok I have this female friend of mine. Heres the deal. She thinks its ok to do whatever she wants with a guy, but she never went past 3rd base. Yet apparently I cant even talk to a girl without getting a lecture on how Im a dirty little pervert. Well I finally had enough. Heres how it went when she told me she had a mad makeout session with a guy

Me: Sounds like you had fun. Let me ask, how come I want to go to 3rd base yet somehow Im the *******

Her: Because its all you seem to want to do.

Me: I barely even kissed a girl before, and humans are supposed ot want to do sexual things

Her: But it still seemed like thats all you want to do.

Me: Well your making me feel unmasculine. Cut it out!

Her: I did a bad thing?

Me: Yes you puts! Dont try making me a woman just because no other females will talk to you


Anyone ever run into this problem with girls? I got tired of feeling guilty for just talking to a girl or wanting to do certain things. I felt its time to let loose the inner DJ
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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[]D [] []V[] []D

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so are you having troubles with girls thinking your a perv? or that your a women?

...or both?
 

GuitarOnFire

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You're coming across as either insecure or wimpish. Why are you listening to her stories anyways?
 

XSilverStarboyX

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[]D [] []V[] []D said:
so are you having troubles with girls thinking your a perv? or that your a women?

...or both?
No it was like this, I told her I wanted to try kissing and stuff like that. She gets mad and blows up. But, she tells me how she has mad makeout sessions and somehow its ok for her to do that. I said stop trying to make me a female because Im tired of her trying to lower my masculinity level
 

XSilverStarboyX

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GuitarOnFire said:
You're coming across as either insecure or wimpish. Why are you listening to her stories anyways?
I ask myself the same thing. I tell her shes full of it each time and I still get the message of what shes saying. So this is why I finally stepped up to the plate and smashed her right to the ground
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dannowillbookem

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are you guys dating or something? why should she give a flying fuuck?


anyways, never tell a girl you wanna kiss her. its bad moves, man. just do it. if she wants you the confidence will tide you over (make sure youre alone though) and if she doesnt, its a quick end to that. this girl sounds like an attention *****. play tough with her and if that doesnt work, nexttttt
 

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lol i liked how you handled that...

but seriously..why is she worried about your business?
 

XSilverStarboyX

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dannowillbookem said:
are you guys dating or something? why should she give a flying fuuck?


anyways, never tell a girl you wanna kiss her. its bad moves, man. just do it. if she wants you the confidence will tide you over (make sure youre alone though) and if she doesnt, its a quick end to that. this girl sounds like an attention *****. play tough with her and if that doesnt work, nexttttt
Oh I never tell girls if I want to kiss them. She asked me what things I would ever try. I of course made her go first then I said making out along with other things. I would never date her
 
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