"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I really wish girls had some courage and integrity

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If you dont want to talk/hangout with a guy, JUST TELL HIM THAT OR DO NOT PICK UP HIS CALLS EVER.


Do not be friendly and reply to his msg's with "hey i'm out right now, how about some other time" if you have no intention of it

Do not say "im busy right now, but i'll call you back" and then not call back. Why? because this gives no closure and he's left waiting.

Do not give him head one day, and then reject him the next week.


ugh, i feel like an ass right now. For letting myself be led on. I just wish this girl wouldve had the balls to tell me she didnt wanna **** anymore, instead of *****footing around it and leading me on.

All she had to do was not answer my txts, and I wouldve taken a hint at first. But she kept coming with excuses and delaying it.

jesus christ. Oh well. Next time a girl tells me how her boyfriend was such an ******* and neglected her I will just laugh.

:mad: @myself for being an idiot. You live, you learn. Atleast I tried.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't beat yourself too much REPEM. You only have to trust your gut and judge a girl's interest by her actions not her words...

Put it this way, if a girl is really into you and you don't feel the same way about her, I don't think you just wanna text her: I don't want date because of so and so... You will stay friendly but staying away at the same time...

But I understand what you mean... Some girls will be straight forward about this, but some (the majority of them in my opinion) will be indirect because for them being direct is being mean...
 
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i know man, i ****ed up.


i knew she liked me. She was contacting me. She gave me head one night when she was over. Then I screwed up by coming on too strong the next week, and she lost 100% interest since then. Ever since that night she has been giving me the run around.

I guess I was wrong to take her oral skills as an IOI haha
 
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REPEM said:
I guess I was wrong to take her oral skills as an IOI haha
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It was a major IOI :rolleyes: But you did come off as too strong afterwards. Just cut contact for a week, if she contact you, great ! Be relax about the situation.

If not, then call her in a week and set up a meeting. By her response you should be able to tell if she still wanna have your rocket in her mouth and in her p*ussy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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badboyjmm said:
It was a major IOI :rolleyes: But you did come off as too strong afterwards. Just cut contact for a week, if she contact you, great ! Be relax about the situation.

If not, then call her in a week and set up a meeting. By her response you should be able to tell if she still wanna have your rocket in her mouth and in her p*ussy
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that's what i did.

I cut off contact for awhile, then re-contacted her and she said she was busy but would call me back. She never did. Meh.
 
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REPEM said:
If you dont want to talk/hangout with a guy, JUST TELL HIM THAT OR DO NOT PICK UP HIS CALLS EVER.


Do not be friendly and reply to his msg's with "hey i'm out right now, how about some other time" if you have no intention of it

Do not say "im busy right now, but i'll call you back" and then not call back. Why? because this gives no closure and he's left waiting.

Do not give him head one day, and then reject him the next week.


ugh, i feel like an ass right now. For letting myself be led on. I just wish this girl wouldve had the balls to tell me she didnt wanna **** anymore, instead of *****footing around it and leading me on.

All she had to do was not answer my txts, and I wouldve taken a hint at first. But she kept coming with excuses and delaying it.

jesus christ. Oh well. Next time a girl tells me how her boyfriend was such an ******* and neglected her I will just laugh.

:mad: @myself for being an idiot. You live, you learn. Atleast I tried.
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your not alone, seriously, I hate and despise it with a huge passion when girls tease me or lead me on, I hate it when they make me think I have a chance with them and then they reject my further advances, the advances that would lead up to a first date or making it official. This has happend many times, I hate it when a girl lets me have her real phone number but then she never answers or calls me back, nor texts me back either, gosh, why can't girls just give a wrong number or just say that they have a boyfriend already, geeze it's not that hard, . Also this happend twice but I'm still pissed off about it, 2 girls let me have their real phone number, but when I asked them out on a date or if we could hang out, they said that they have a boyfriend already and that their boyfriend gets jealous. Ummmmm, WHY WOULD YOU LET A GUY HAVE YOUR PHONE NUMBER IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND ALREADY!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!, if you just wanted to be friends, well no thanks, because if you have a boyfriend that means I can't date you or sleep with you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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