"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i really need this girl. theres money involved.

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well usually i could care less if i got the girl or not...but my friend jake just reminded me that i made a bet that i could get a girl (anna) on a date by the end of the summer. 20 bucks!

i may have had her going then, but now i'm not sure shes game. shes gets back from seatle on the first, which gives me exactly a week to get a date out of a girl thats a party chick. i doubt i'll be able to get going out to a party with her to count as a date, so i need like a movie or something standard. i cant drive so it will probably be the pictures (the mecca of high school social affairs for fort myers high) i just dunno if i can get that on the last week of summer.

so i'm in a bind. anybody have some fast seduction tips? obviously the girl is smoking hot and popular or else she wouldnt be the center of the bet.

post tips and i'll post back.

goddamn i've been making alotta threads lately...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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True True. Well just get your head on your shoulders and don't try too hard. You shouldn't make stupid bet's like that. You know how many movies have this same exact plot? Like hundreds of them.

And they always end up with the main character (You) learning some stupid ass lesson about how you shouldn't just try to bang every chick you meet.

Well I just advize that you get a camera crew to folow you around and then sell it for millions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Read this

It will tell you everything you need to know.

you're welcome!
 

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[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

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do you talk to Anna at all? or did you just make a bet you can get a date with some chick youve never met/talked to before?
 

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Originally posted by [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
do you talk to Anna at all? or did you just make a bet you can get a date with some chick youve never met/talked to before?
ah no man we talk all the time and alot of people says she likes me (i always assume a girl likes me unless i did something stupid) but shes been on this long ass vacation and we havent talked in a while. shes the popular chick u know so shes good at the game like i am, which is annoying.
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by Porky
Read this

It will tell you everything you need to know.

you're welcome!
lol stfu. just because i'm doing that doesnt mean i'm ultra perfect. plus like i said, i usually like to take my time with things.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol maybe thats your problem. Takin way too much time!
 

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lol yeah well we all make mistakes. Well except for me. I am perfect. :woo: :woo:
 

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ah man i chose a bad time to start my uber luber post. haha o well.

yeah guess i'll have to stop being lazy and speed things up. it'll be a challenge.
 

[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
ah no man we talk all the time and alot of people says she likes me (i always assume a girl likes me unless i did something stupid) but shes been on this long ass vacation and we havent talked in a while. shes the popular chick u know so shes good at the game like i am, which is annoying.
give her a call, ask her how her trip was blah blah blah, whatchu doing "insert day"how bout we go catch a movie "insert sum crappy movie"

if she likes u there shouldnt b a problem
 

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Originally posted by [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
give her a call, ask her how her trip was blah blah blah, whatchu doing "insert day"how bout we go catch a movie "insert sum crappy movie"

if she likes u there shouldnt b a problem
Dundundundun We have a winner, just call her say "hope you had a good time wanna go *insert date here* with me?"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey how much time do you have left on this bet? When's it end?
 

dannowillbookem

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Hey how much time do you have left on this bet? When's it end?
end of summer. i have her friend easy and i think i'll have her.

and, of course, i can always hope jake forgot about the bet. between the weed and alcohol, im surprised either one of us remembers :D
 

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ur 15 and supposedly doing weed? hope ur trying to boost ur online ego coz thats just stupid and pathetic.
 

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Originally posted by [DoN.2.Da.JUaN]
ur 15 and supposedly doing weed? hope ur trying to boost ur online ego coz thats just stupid and pathetic.
psh everyone does it down here.

i'm actually a good kid. i dont do cocaine.
 

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If hes paying you 20 bucks then make sure you dont use too much money getting her to date you.. which means the expenses for dating money should not excede 20 dollars or else tell him to raise the price...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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