I am seeing myself improve in all aspects. Ive really started being more outgoing and all. However, i seem to be way out of place at big parties.
I am familiar with most of the kids that go to parties a lot. All of them like me, but im just a guy thats pretty cool. I don't get sought out at parties, and i usually stick to the people that i know well. I hate this, especially because ive read the bible and ahve started to apply my knowledge somewhat on the field.
Actually, im better when i meet a complete stranger than when im at these parties because, since i havent talked to some of these kids in awhile, it seems very awkward for me to just go up and all of a sudden start talking to them. A lot of these kids i've never even talked to, but ive seen them a lot since i go to a lot of parties.
Also, it seems like the people that i have NEVER met before at these parties, but i have seen many times, will be weirded out if i introduce myself to them. I would think that most of these kids got to know each other through friends and such, not by randomly going up and introducing themselves (something which i might have to do).
Lastly, when i do talk to people at parties, i feel like im boring. I know that you should talk about anything. But last night i was talking to this girl about Spain (since im going there soon). But It seemed like she wasnt interested. I always try to listen to other people's conversations at parties but a lot of times they aretalkin just about alcohol or other people (since i dont know a bunch of people, and since i don't drink often its hard for me).
I really need advice. Although i am short (5'7) I think that i am very good-looking like higher than an 8 on a scale. So this isnt a self-confidence issue, or maybe it is. I guess since i think that most girls go for the tall, preppy type, i get a bit afraid. But i want to meet more people and, most of all, be more comfortable at Parties. Any suggestions?
P.S. I know that everyone has their insecurities, but at parties i dont seem to truly realize this. I think that everyone is really cool and all. A lot of these kids know almost everyone, so they talk amongst themselves. I don't know how people would take a random guy (that maybe they've seen a lot but never talked to) coming up to introduce himself.
I am familiar with most of the kids that go to parties a lot. All of them like me, but im just a guy thats pretty cool. I don't get sought out at parties, and i usually stick to the people that i know well. I hate this, especially because ive read the bible and ahve started to apply my knowledge somewhat on the field.
Actually, im better when i meet a complete stranger than when im at these parties because, since i havent talked to some of these kids in awhile, it seems very awkward for me to just go up and all of a sudden start talking to them. A lot of these kids i've never even talked to, but ive seen them a lot since i go to a lot of parties.
Also, it seems like the people that i have NEVER met before at these parties, but i have seen many times, will be weirded out if i introduce myself to them. I would think that most of these kids got to know each other through friends and such, not by randomly going up and introducing themselves (something which i might have to do).
Lastly, when i do talk to people at parties, i feel like im boring. I know that you should talk about anything. But last night i was talking to this girl about Spain (since im going there soon). But It seemed like she wasnt interested. I always try to listen to other people's conversations at parties but a lot of times they aretalkin just about alcohol or other people (since i dont know a bunch of people, and since i don't drink often its hard for me).
I really need advice. Although i am short (5'7) I think that i am very good-looking like higher than an 8 on a scale. So this isnt a self-confidence issue, or maybe it is. I guess since i think that most girls go for the tall, preppy type, i get a bit afraid. But i want to meet more people and, most of all, be more comfortable at Parties. Any suggestions?
P.S. I know that everyone has their insecurities, but at parties i dont seem to truly realize this. I think that everyone is really cool and all. A lot of these kids know almost everyone, so they talk amongst themselves. I don't know how people would take a random guy (that maybe they've seen a lot but never talked to) coming up to introduce himself.