"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I realized that I can't pay attention to what a girl says

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Yesterday I was at school until like 7:30 in the evening editing a movie I made and teacher left me and this girl by ourselves in the room...Well I wasn't intending on seducing, but definately gauge interest.

Well, I was doing the ****y funny and creating a little bit of rapport but when I created that, she totally went off and started talking for like 15 minutes non stop. I was like, yeah, uh huh the whole time with little questions here and there.

I realized that after the first 1 minute and a half of hearing her and trying to act like I was listening I felt like I was trying to catch multiple baseballs flying at me at 97 mph.

Whats up with that?!
 

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its just not chick for you. **** it
 
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i noticed that part. But this is with all girls.

They never talk about anything I can relate with.
 

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wait fo the proper one. or find girl that doesnt speak haha.
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ok.......
so you be knowledgable about the game eh? how many girls you f*cked in the last 48 hrs?
 

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Ignore [o_O]

I am AFC, but if you wish you can take my advice.

I know most people say let her do most of the talking and you do the least of talking. But... take charge of where the convo goes, let it go into something that you like. I am there with you that they talk about nothing but udder crap. If you don't pay attention too much to this crap later on she will maybe ask you about this bull.... So stear the convo in the way you want it to go.
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell

Well, I was doing the ****y funny and creating a little bit of rapport but when I created that, she totally went off and started talking for like 15 minutes non stop. I was like, yeah, uh huh the whole time with little questions here and there.
so why do you complain? you shouldn't give a damn what a girl says as long as you follow the plan which is keep them talking with little questions etc etc (which you did). She talked to 15 min straight so obviously she had rapport with you.
 
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