I realized I'm a wuss (the hard way)

[nightcrawler]

So today there was this older woman at the store. She's old (40-50 I'd say) but she was sexy. I said to myself "I'd hit it"

I decided to pursue it. She seemed depressive and such so I said to myself "this should be easy"

I made small talk with her and asked if she wanted to hang out later that night. She kept telling me that "she has a son as old as me" and that "she's a mom" and that "I'm just a baby"....I said that something about her intrigued me and told her she looked good. I also ept insisting that we get together.

Anyways I should've cut right to the chase she was sexy and I wanted to see her that night for some fun. Straight up. No games. I should've been "a man" and said what I wanted bluntly.

She still got my # though and before she left she called my phone to make sure it was mine. I get the feeling she won't call though. I told her I got out at 9 but I still get the feeling she won't call. I want to call her to see if we can still do something, but I get the feeling I would come off as needy.

Damn it now I realize why I'm a virgin...I'm too afraid of saying **** straight up!

From now on I will be more direct and more confident. Now I'm just pissed off with myself.

 

[Chaotixxx]

You have to be more direct, but don't verbalize it. Show it in your actions that you mean business. Maybe touching her more would have got the point across. But being verbally direct makes girls feel like sluts. You have to be confident in your actions moreso than your words.

Also don't sit there and expect her to call. Even when girls are interested they might not call. Next time you take the initiative and get HER number so the ball is in your court.

Dont be pissed, this is all supposed to be fun. Theres a positive side for every situation. Look how much you learned from just this one.

 

[Alkali]

This is why men generally get the number instead of give it.

Besides, if you're a virgin why the fukc would you go hitting on grannies?

 

[Dongfu]

depressed 50 yr olds definatly want to fvck a young guy.

 

[Bvbidd]

WTF

Why the hell would you want that nasty old sh!t?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Actually I met a hot 47 year old Korean woman a few months ago. I would have hit it but she said I was too young. I had her in my house too and I couldn't close the deal. Time to turn in my man card.

 

[nightcrawler]

This is why men generally get the number instead of give it.

Besides, if you're a virgin why the fukc would you go hitting on grannies?

Actually she asked me for my # and called my cell right away to make sure it was my #. I guess I waited too long to ask for the # so she asked for mine instead. I hope she doesn't keep it as a trophy to tell all her friends :crackup:

And I'll admit it, I'm intimidated by girls my age. Seems to me all girls want is pretty boys with lots of friends.

What's a loner like me to do? I have no social life and I'm not exactly top dog in the looks department.

Besides an acquaintance of mine told me the best he ever had was with an older woman and she thought him everything he knew, so why not?

 

[skirtChaser]

if she called your cell phone go into the call history and look up her number and call her. that's why she called, she wanted you to call her.

 

[nightcrawler]

if she called your cell phone go into the call history and look up her number and call her. that's why she called, she wanted you to call her.

Isn't the ball in her court right now though? I gave her my number and she called right (in front of me) away just to make sure it was my cell. She hung up right away.

I don't wanna ruin it..I feel like I have a good shot at this one:woo:

 

[tjf420]

if she called your cell phone go into the call history and look up her number and call her. that's why she called, she wanted you to call her.

I was thinking the exact same thing!! get dat # man

 

[skirtChaser]

if she was on your jock call her, or wait till 9 and call her, if she wants it she just wants you to take control, if you got the right signals from her call her now and set something up. she already knows what you want and she has already decided if she is going to have sex with you or not. screw the ball in court crap and take charge.

 

[skirtChaser]

tell her your friends want you to go bowling or play pool but that you would prefer to see her and is 930 at wherever ok?

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

haha she has a son as old as you... but why would you go for an old lady?
are you desperate?

 

[skirtChaser]

haha she has a son as old as you... but why would you go for an old lady?
are you desperate?

dude you're a idiot!....go watch the graduate you stupid moron and leave him alone. chicks in 40s screw like crazy, much better than younger chicks

 

[nightcrawler]

Just got off the phone with her.

She told me she was ready for bed and was too tired. She asked me if I dated older girls (to which I replied "I don't like younger girls" ) b4 and asked me what year I graduated High School in. When I said '05 (I'm 20 years old) she insisted that I was too young.

Anyways she just ended up telling me about this TV show and telling me she was tired. She told me she'd talk to me soon. I told her "you got nothing to lose"

So yeah, just got rejected. But I'm not feeling any sadness or bitterness or negative feelings. Just relief from not saying "what if" x1000 in my head. I'm kinda happy actually.

Oh well guess I'll have porn tonight :crackup:

btw it's 11 00...perhaps if I had called at 9 it would be different. She did ask me "wow you just got out of work?!?!!? "

 

[skirtChaser]

yeah next time be froggy and leap, if she talks about age again just deflect it and ask her why shes so obsessed with age?....its not all black and white. ya gotta take charge and be bold. it pays off, trust me

 

[nightcrawler]

yeah next time be froggy and leap, if she talks about age again just deflect it and ask her why shes so obsessed with age?....its not all black and white. ya gotta take charge and be bold. it pays off, trust me

Yeah I realized I should've just said screw age but didn't think of it atm.

I guess getting bold will take time and experience.

Oh well I'm just glad I tried.

 

[skirtChaser]

yeah props for trying

 

[potato]

What's a loner like me to do?

Some loners get lots of women.

 

[nightcrawler]

Some loners get lots of women.

elaborate please:woo:

does it have to do with the whole "lone wolf" romanticism?