"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Packers2010

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"if you said that she would just slap you"


then i stood back and thought about it...

who put that idea into my head? i have already rejected myself before i have even walked into the room with a girl.

i have no reference experiences at all. why? because someone or something has told me it's not ok to do that?

i just had the realization i can say whatever i want! i don't know what the outcome is because i have never said anything before. i have always stopped myself from doing it because of these " external factors" weather they be from social media or from friends or wherever. they said no to anything i wanted to say. i always took the internal root. instead of taking the external root.

i know taking the external root sounds bad. but i ONLY mean this for what i say. i don't mean taking validation from them, or waiting to see what they say. it's more of by passing this " no" i have inside me.

could you help me out on these topic.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Packers2010 said:
"if you said that she would just slap you"

then i stood back and thought about it...

who put that idea into my head? i have already rejected myself before i have even walked into the room with a girl.

i have no reference experiences at all. why? because someone or something has told me it's not ok to do that?

i just had the realization i can say whatever i want! i don't know what the outcome is because i have never said anything before. i have always stopped myself from doing it because of these " external factors" weather they be from social media or from friends or wherever. they said no to anything i wanted to say. i always took the internal root. instead of taking the external root.

i know taking the external root sounds bad. but i ONLY mean this for what i say. i don't mean taking validation from them, or waiting to see what they say. it's more of by passing this " no" i have inside me.

could you help me out on these topic.
You absorbed this as you were growing up. It could have come from anywhere, someone you know, a movie, who knows. It probably came at you from a hundred places.

I have a lot of friends tell me they'd get slapped if they said things like I say to women so it's not an unusual thought.
 

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Me and my friend were drunk once, on a car, met a chic walking, tried picking her up, no response, went ahead, then met two more chics. He asked if that blond behind was with you, one of the chics replies 'fvck you something something bad about his momma'. We back up, and he ends up beating her ass up. She was on the pavement knocked out and her sister tried defending her.
 
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